Hi Tiff, if as you say he had rubbed it till it was raw, the damage may be irreversible, and we need friction for ejeculation to come into effecthe set him self a hard task to find away out of it, I'le have a read around some dark corners, and see what I can find. Good LuckView Thread
Hi Vkeshav, Why did your put you on antidepressants, for night fall/wetdreams, he should have just sent you away and said we all get them dont worry, your in a gym, women arond you in tight fitting cloths, that leave nothong to the imaganation, and you wonder hwy you get wet dreams, when all you need is a good woman around you to have got you over that problem by having more sex, all you can do now is give it time, with no drugs and see how it goes from there, But I do have a herb list that may help get you up and running again, should get your nocternal erections going and morning woods back, and there all simple things, and some you may have now in the kitchen. Come back to me if intrested. Good LuckView Thread
Hi Tiff, Two things he could try, and the first is the easy one, when he thinks its time to ejeculate, he does this(but I'm taken it he has a foreskin) He puts his hand down between you and pulls back his foreskin and holds why hes still in the motion of having sex, and best if he is taken you from behind, by doing this he exsposes his gland to more friction, works fro me when I get the odd problem. Now the second is a 50, 50 chance of working, if he has ever overmasturbated or masturbated to porn he could have some kind of ED but affecting his ejeculation side, and it would mean going 8 weeks without masturbating or any sexual contact with you, this way it would give his body a time to reboot, and this is whta its for, its a sabbatical from sex for him, and you both need to be strong to give it a chane to work. Any help. Good LuckView Thread
Hi Jd, If you are afriad of the side effects of erection drugs how would you fill about herbs, I have a post and if you google this it will take you to itand some of the things that will help you, you may now have in your home, as there just simple thigs, Sjust just google DRUGS VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, all I can ask is give it a good read to understand it,and then give it a 12 week trial, but hopefully by week 6 you should be getting some improvement, its when you start getting nocternal erections and morning woods back then things are working, have had ED and now in recovery, but I think ED jokes with us, but I'm now 65 and have sex 3/4 times a week, and yes did have side effects with viagra and thats why I now use herbs and a hormone. Good LuckView Thread
Hi, So do you think it could be your past catching up with you, I'm 65 had ed but now in recovery, but I think it jokes us. But things like drugs you take, alcohol abuse, stress, worry and anxiety, can all play a part in your problem, one last thing could be the old prostate playing up, so get that tested. So at your age some DHEA may help but please read up about it first, it will boost you testosterone, lift your libido and kick up your energy levels, and could help produce extra sperm and its a hormone, Tribulus a herb runs along the same lines, but will take 8 weeks to get to full power, than cut back both to just 5 days out of 7, and the last is L-Argininerthis will help you get some extra nitrates in your body. Hope any of this helps, you can google any of it for more info, or check them out here on site by putting them in the search box. Good LuckView Thread
Hi Finished, If like you say have an erection but have trouble maintaining it, have you thought of a cock ring, I have had the same problem as a patr of ED but now in recovery, but I think it jokes us. My ring is a harwear ice from myhardwear.com, if like me it will keep you good and hard to eleculation, and may give you some extra size, its that good. Have you thought of trying some herbs as a help, the ones I'm on are just simple ones and they work if intrested please come back to me. Good LuckView Thread
The most important information I got from the convention was a method which makes it possible to have inter course with a flaccid or semi erect penis.
The following technique was described at the symposium: The man lies flat on his back, the women straddles him in a half kneeling position, leaning on her left knee, and on the right foot. This gives her room to manipulate with her right hand, She clamps the penis firmly but not to tightly at the base with her thumb and index finger (palm facing the mans body).This causes sufficient firmness to allow insertion. The women then sits firmly upon the penis. This approach permit she a wide range of movement and not only enables a considerable penetration but gives her the opportunity to rub her clitoris against her index finger.
When the erection is complete she may remove her hand and let her partner begin the active coital movement.
If for any reason this method doesn't not, then the couple should try a special friction technique between a flaccid penis and the clitoris. The man lies flat on his back. The women lies on top of him in a prone superior position. She begins to embrace and kiss him passionately. Then she starts a belly dance movement to stimulate the penis. Later she assumes a position which enables her to rub her clitoris to the soft penis. By kissing her partner and the clitoris friction she will get aroused, which, in turn, will excite her partner. Then he may achieve a partial or full erection.
In the former case she used the clamping technique, and in the latter case she may start coitus by inserting his penis.
It appears that more and more men are losing their ability to have intercourse with a women without her active participation, there is very little a man can do to cure his own impotence and sympathetic woman can do it for him.
What you have read above comes from a 1970 Forum magazine, its from a piece written by Dr Eugene Scheimann, when he went to a swingers convention in Chicago, and this was a small part on impotence/ED, its so us men could have some kind of sex lives before drugs come to the front to overcome ED View Thread
Hi Mike, taken this break will help you forward to erections, the idea behaind it is if you do this it gives your whole body time to relax and get over things, that you have been putting your body through, its not just the masturbating, but over masturbating gives big problems to your body. Sorry no I have not tried it but have answered lots of guys who have the problem, if you need more info just google porn enduced ED and over masturbating, lots to read, just like I did for other guys. Good LuckView Thread
Hi Just thought I would get back in here, did have acupuncture once, I was asked how I felt after it, and I said I felt the same, so I think its horses for courses, so with me did not work, but sorry it was not for ED, But I do take herbs for ED and now in recovery, and what you find below is my daily in take, and no drugs, works for me.Good Luck Hi, So here's mine, first thing in the morning, DHEA 50 mg Tribulus 450mg Before each meal, Cayenne with small spoonful of garlic added to a mix of tomato paste, Cayenne to my heat and thinned with olive oil, and take 3 small spoonfuls washed down with water, 3 times a day, I add the garlic each time and mix in ti the top, keep fine chopped garlic in olive oil and parsley in fridge, but keep both in fridge. Back or green tea through the day and 3 cups with grated ginger in it, I keep my ginger in the freezer and fine grate to the size of an egg, put your ginger and lemon in the microwave for 30 sec. One day a week I have a 2 pint tea pot of green tea and ground down herbal tribulus, and let it steep over night, drink through the day with ginger, honey and lemon. Take 1 500mg L-Arginine in late afternoon. After last meal take one 25mg DHEA, one more Tribulus 450mg and daily vits. I only take 5 days out of 7, and when I wash down my cayenne mix with water, I have boric acid in it just over a 1/4 teaspoon in 3/4 litre of water daily, there a very good piece on earth clinic about boric acid and ED, and its also good for rynards disease which I have, but I think this could be me having ED, but its been better this year. For anybody doing herbs its all down to a mix that suits you, and this mix is mine, but could work for you. Works well for me and now in ED recovery, get woken up in the night with nocturnal erections and get some great morning woods, the last two have not had for years, even forgot what they were, along with these do kegels daily, and getting back into some light jelqing and stretching, all this helps. And last, do have a hardwear Ice cockring, this does give some real good boners that the wife loves. Any help Good Luck NOHARDView Thread
Hi Mikerz, So if your testosterone is OK then it could be blood flow problems, things like Cayenne, Ginger, Garlic and green tea will all help, try drinking 3 mugs of green tea with ginger, honey and lemon, Cayennethis mix with tomato paste to a heat that suits you or as hot as you can take, take 3 small spoonfulls before each meal, Garlic, chop a whloe head very fine and mix in olive oil, add a small heaped spoonful onto the top of the Cayenne and just mix into the top and take, wash down with water. see how this does you should know after a week, or form getting nocternal erections or good morning woods, if this works then this will need to become a way of life, your sex life. Please come back to me if it works and we can give another boost. Good luckView Thread