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I have had E.D. since i was in my twenties. That in itself, never stopped me from being affectionate. This man has issues in that reguard. And NO, you cannot fix it!!!
I hate to say things like this, but this situation warrants it; GET OUT! Leave this guy brfore it tears you down. You will never fix his inability to show you affection. He does not want to even communicate with you. Not even after you have told him how this is effecting you? Get out, NOW!!! YOU cannot FIX him!!!
Sorry, but i hope this helps, DennisView Thread

There are times when, i may not feel more pain, yet i will break oout in cold sweats. When i had appendicitis, i broke out in cold sweats. Pain can cause this. Have him talk to his Dr., for your own peace of mind.
Keep us informed. And welcome here!
DennisView Thread

I really hope this may help? DennisView Thread

I am very concerned with your mental well being. Why in the world would you stay with someone who is cheating on you??? You certainly do NOT deserve that!
May i suggest something? Leave this guy, and find someone who will give you love, and most importantly, RESPECT. Also one that will give you the sex you desire.
There is nothing wrong with you! You may have "low self esteem problems? There are many men out there, one will certainly fit the bill. For your sake, i hope you leave this double timer, and get yourself a good man.
Best of luck to you, DennisView Thread

Have you been tested for fertility? You claim your husband has been. If not, then do it. That way, if you are good to go, then he will have to accept that. He will then need to see an Urologist for his E.D..
Have you tried different things to excite him? Dress sexily, give him erotic massages? Anything? I hope you realize, that as we grow older, our sex drive diminishes over time? Your husband may be at that point?
Good luck, DennisView Thread


Ask her to imagine the shoe on the other foot. What if it was her that could'nt have an orgasm? Would that change the way she feels? I think not.
Good luck! DennisView Thread

Something here does not sound good to me? Talk to your Dr. he/she may have an answer for you.
Good luck!View Thread

Second, your problem sounds like too much stress. Try living in the moment only. Think of the pleasure you are giving, and recieving, and nothing else. That alone should work.
You say you have ejackulations, so the problem has to lie with the stress. Stop thinking, just do!
I guess i hope this works for you?View Thread

If what you say is true, about not needing him for sex, TELL HIM!!! PROVE THAT to him! Next time he thinks you need some pleasuring, tell him to just cuddle with you, thats all you want, or need. You need to make him understand that sex is not all that you want from him, just him. Tell him how thankful you are just being married to him. Build on his ego, a little. Tell him, that he is all the man you need.
I hope this helps, good luck, DennisView Thread
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