I am 29 and my husband is 36. I have a big appetite for sex and when we met everything was great in that aspect. after the first year of our marriage it went downhill fast. We took him to the doctor and he was diagnosed with low T and ED. They gave him medication to help fix this... but after weeks of using the T we have noticed no difference and the cialis and viagra work but then cause horrible headaches. He has given up trying and although i fully understand how frustrating it must be for him nothing is ever gonna get better unless he tries. Every time i discuss this with him and how important it is to our marriage and to me he gets defensive and shuts down or says he will try and then doesnt. Its playing with my self esteem alot seeing as im 30 lbs over the weight when i first met. I need help from anyone that can tell me the best approach to talking to him that he will listen or a medication that doesnt have the side effects viagra and cialis tend to give. We are COMPLETELY night and day from when we were first together and I just want my husband back. I want his self esteem and his confidence back. Its going to end up severely hurting our marriageView Thread
Cialis had the same affect on his as viagra did. He does have gut fat and doesnt excersise at all. however he isnt overweight. My biggest issue outside of the low T is the lack of feeling. When we try to have intercourse minutes in or even before we start he cannot feel his penis at all. He has back issues and have been told that could be a cause. But some days his back wont be an issue at all and it still happens. The lack of sensitivity has his regular physician stumped. Any ideas on what this could be? Also at nohard-- i will definately look up the herbs.View Thread
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