Hi there, here's my problem;[br>I'm 30, and since I have started dating girls, when I get aroused during foreplay, I have this issue. I get aroused or almost fully hard down there, but in a short time I get this small wetness in my pants that takes away my erection. I would be soft. I would however continue to be extremely horny because I did not orgasm, so I would just do other things to please her and get her horny for all night, but I cannot achieve this full erection again. The good news, if there is any, is that I will fool around all night because I don't orgasm. ...and now I know that when that happens, I also lose my erection. It's pre-ejaculation fluid but my penis acts like I had an orgasm and ejaculated. I tend to start "leaking" pre-ejaculate at the slightest arousal - even during non-intense kissing and cuddling - in small amounts.[br>When I am alone, I can masturbate normally, fully erected without pre-ejaculatory fluid. However, I stopped watching porn and masturbate so I could transfer my sexual appetites to her only.[br>I cannot control the release of pre ejaculation fluid when I am with my girl. What is physically wrong with my body that causes this to happen and how can I correct it?[br>Please if anyone have something to help, cause my girlfriends starts to think that I am not sexually attracted enough to her! A few nights ago she cried and said that she feels and starting to think that I will never be able to "trust her and relax enough" (she sad this indirectly) so we could make love normally.[br>I think that a few of my relationships went down just because of this issue, but this reason was covered by other minor.[br>Thanks a lot!View Thread
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