Wow, I'm in the same boat. My wife wants it once a month, and even then it's pretty uninspired. She used to not even try to hide her disinterest, one time I asked her if she wanted a book to read till we were done, lol. We had a discussion a year or so back, and she started acting like she wanted it more, she also started acting like a porn star with all the fake screams, etc but that just turns me off. Don't want pity sex. I've allways been in good shape, but I'm short (5'6) so that doesn't help much either. I'm really starting to think I need to just get a mistress and be done with it. It's either that or reduce my libido.View Thread
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