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That way either one of you can initiate sex any time you feel like it. If you both agree, he takes the pill and pleasures you until he's ready. A woman can just lie there and either orgasm or not. A man has to be able to get it up and satisfy his partner. It's a lot of pressure.View Thread

I took 1000mg of Yohimbe at 6:00 am on an empty stomach. At 7:00am I was able to achieve a maximum erection for me which is about 85% of what I had before I had ED problems. I was able to orgasm and maintained the erection for another 5 minutes. An hour later I was able to get about an 80% erection. The side effects were a jittery like over caffeinated feeling that lasted about 4 hours.
Background: 67 years old about 50 pounds over my ideal weight and taking low dosage high blood pressure medication. I know Yohimbe is not a good idea, but have no family history of heart problems. I have tried levitra and cialis which isn't effective as my experiment. My normal regimen is 6000mg of horny goat weed a day and that produces about a 70% erection and might be acceptable for intercourse. I have no side effects. The last two times my wife and I made love was less than a year and more than 4 months ago. I was able to pleasure her manually and was able to orgasm after a very short time with a minimal erection. I was taking no ED meds or herbs.
My wife greatly prefers intercourse and me not being able to provide it was disappointing to her. The only way I can get her to want to try again is if I can demonstrate to her that I can have a decent erection and then only if she is in the mood. Not having an erection
is a huge turn off for her and so she is very unlikely to consider sex.
Plan A should be to lose the 50 pounds and be able to hopefully get off the blood pressure meds. That will be difficult because I have a problem with my feet (not diabetic) that limits the amount of walking I can do. I don't have the time for swimming and dieting alone doesn't work well without exercise. I have stationary bike, but due to other physical problems I don't sleep well and am tired. I'm going to push through it and get on the bike. This will improve my health and hopefully my erection.View Thread

I got a free 30 day trial everyday Cialis. It worked ok but paying $200 a month and taking pills every day at the chance my wife would be in the mood which could be months or years apart. This might be a solution for you and your husband. If the medication worked for him, he would be ready 24/7.
I don't know much about you or your husband, age, sexual activities, sexual experience. I had my first girl friend at about age 30. We dated for months and did nothing but passionate kissing and hugging. One day she had enough and asked me to bed. I was about ready to explode and she wanted immediate intercourse. I didn't last very long and that was the end of our sexual and other relationship.
My second girlfriend asked me to bed on our first date. She allowed me to satisfy her orally and manually prior to intercourse and she became my sexual soul mate. We had a lot of fun.
Sex is more than intercourse. He should be able to pleasure you without his penis. Using Viagra, he would take the pill and you could do all kinds of great things to each other; kissing, hugging, fondling until he is hard and then intercourse can begin.View Thread


Now, it helps me get a moderate erection.View Thread


He may think that intimacy is just foreplay and you expect intercourse. Talk to him.View Thread

Try to make him feel comfortable with sexual activity even if intercourse isn't successful. Making him feel like he's not a failure. Viagra is an admission of failure and makes sex less spontaneous. If he feels good about the love making, it may turn out that he might not even need it.View Thread

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