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My wife is a fantastic lover who enjoys 100's of orgasms when she is in the mood which went from infrequent to maybe never again. No point being angry, she knows how I feel about it.View Thread



Overall, the cost isn't worth it to me. My wife's wanting sex is so infrequent, it is not a practical solution for me.View Thread

Ideally sex should be spontaneous, but what if it can't be?View Thread

First thing, give your partner some nice orgasms by any means necessary and then have intercourse where you are trying to last as long as possible. Withdraw if necessary.The more controlled intercourse you have the more control over your orgasm you will have. Trying to give your partner an orgasm through straight intercourse and a little foreplay is not that easy. The motion that provides her the most satisfaction might be the one that makes you orgasm the quickest. The more sex you have the more control you develop. I started getting really good control when I was dating two women at the same time. They were both aware that the relationship was not exclusive. Eventually I was able to recognize how close I was to orgasming and then keep myself from orgasming. I'd rather have ten near orgasms then one orgasm. If you can get to the point where you can last 5 minutes, you can last indefinitely.View Thread

Orgasming isn't a big deal for you. You can do it anytime you
want masturbating. Your masturbation technique is messing up your penise's response during intercourse. Retrain it so you can stay hard a log time and don't worry about having an orgasm. Try to use your hand like it is a vagina, Be gentle, caress it and use plenty of lubrication. When your having intercourse, relax and try to feel everything. Nothing is more exciting than feeling your partner's vagina spasming around your penis. I've always have had a very high sex drive and masturbated a lot even when I was having frequent intercourse. Recovery time shouldn't be an issue until you pass 50.View Thread

If you plan on taking it every day then just say I need to take it. End of discussion.
What I suggested is natural and can be taken every day. The only issue is wheher it will work for you.
My wife was victimized by sexual abuse at an early age and had been sexually active and had two children over 10 years. . She never had an orgasm until she met me. She is multi multi orgasmic but only when she is in the mood and I better be ready that second. She doesn't particularly mind if I take something as long as I am ready when she is, otherwise forget it. We've been married over 30 years.View Thread

I take 3 1000 mg tablets of horny goat weed in the morning and 3 1000 mg tablets at night. It works about as well as Cialis for me, no side effects and much cheaper. I get it from Amazon and is made by source. I strongly recommend that you research it and give it a try.
I've tried another herbal product in addition; Yohimbe (2000mg) and it gives me a harder erection than anything else I've taken, but it the side effects are not good and it lasts a few hours. There are a lot of warnings about it's use. The instructions say take two capsules and I did and wish I hadn't. I tried one tablet and there was a positive effect but still side effects. I tried taking less than one by removing some powder. It gave a strronger erection and the side effects were noticeable but manageable.View Thread

If he isn't capable of orgasm outside of intercourse that is a more signficant problem. If he is, then it sound like you both
are being to goal oriented and need to be more relaxed.View Thread
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