I'd rather off myself than reduce my sex drive. I'm 67 and didn't have a relationship until I was 32. I've been married for 32 years. I've enjoyed masturbating from my early teens to date. My wife is a fantastic lover who enjoys 100's of orgasms when she is in the mood which went from infrequent to maybe never again. No point being angry, she knows how I feel about it.View Thread
I've masturbated frequently for over 50 years. I didn't have ed issues until I was over 60. I have enough memories that I use, so porn isn't necessary. Masturbation is done rather quickly so premature ejaculation is the more likely consequence. Masturbation technique that involves a lot of force and friction can cause orgasms to be difficult during intercourse.Men with this problem need to either stop masturbating or learn to masturbate in a way that is more similar to intercourse. Their penis needs to be retrained.View Thread
Multiple and long lasting are normal for 28. Random, implies no physical or psychological stimulation. Unless the erections are painful, I would recommend searching the web for an explanation, if you don't get a satisfactory response here.View Thread
I have ED and also BPH. Cialis offers a 30 day free trial. I got a prescription from my PCP at my HMO and got the free trial. I had a few days where I didn't have to get up in the middle of the night to urinate, which was great. Since Levitra is the preferred ED medication at my HMO Cialsis was expensive,$250 a month. I didn't investigate getting it from Canada. One of the side effects of Cialis is retrograde ejaculation, which diminishes my sexual experience. Overall, the cost isn't worth it to me. My wife's wanting sex is so infrequent, it is not a practical solution for me.View Thread
You need to find the right girlfriend. Someone who will work with you on your issues. I have a very high sex drive and tended to orgasm to quickly. I would rather not orgasm than orgasm to quickly because I want to have complete control of my orgasm response. Losing your erection is because you are stressed over your performance.
First thing, give your partner some nice orgasms by any means necessary and then have intercourse where you are trying to last as long as possible. Withdraw if necessary.The more controlled intercourse you have the more control over your orgasm you will have. Trying to give your partner an orgasm through straight intercourse and a little foreplay is not that easy. The motion that provides her the most satisfaction might be the one that makes you orgasm the quickest. The more sex you have the more control you develop. I started getting really good control when I was dating two women at the same time. They were both aware that the relationship was not exclusive. Eventually I was able to recognize how close I was to orgasming and then keep myself from orgasming. I'd rather have ten near orgasms then one orgasm. If you can get to the point where you can last 5 minutes, you can last indefinitely.View Thread
Pleasing a woman goes way beyond your dick. Nothing wrong with average size. Sex should be pleasurable for both partners.
Orgasming isn't a big deal for you. You can do it anytime you want masturbating. Your masturbation technique is messing up your penise's response during intercourse. Retrain it so you can stay hard a log time and don't worry about having an orgasm. Try to use your hand like it is a vagina, Be gentle, caress it and use plenty of lubrication. When your having intercourse, relax and try to feel everything. Nothing is more exciting than feeling your partner's vagina spasming around your penis. I've always have had a very high sex drive and masturbated a lot even when I was having frequent intercourse. Recovery time shouldn't be an issue until you pass 50.View Thread
Its' your wife and your relationship. There is no standard conversation. In fact you already had it and didn't get the result you wanted. Do you plan on taking Cialis only before sex or every day? If only before sex then sex won't be spontaneous and that is legitimately a big issue. If you plan on taking it every day then just say I need to take it. End of discussion.
What I suggested is natural and can be taken every day. The only issue is wheher it will work for you.
My wife was victimized by sexual abuse at an early age and had been sexually active and had two children over 10 years. . She never had an orgasm until she met me. She is multi multi orgasmic but only when she is in the mood and I better be ready that second. She doesn't particularly mind if I take something as long as I am ready when she is, otherwise forget it. We've been married over 30 years.View Thread
I've never taken Viagra. My HMO prescribes Levitra and it doesn't help much and I don't like the side effects. I tried the daily Cialis when there was a free 30 day trial. It was ok, but too expensive to take every day and I didn't like the side effect of retrograde ejaculation. My wife's issues may be similar in that she expects an erection spontaneously and that was the case until I passed 60.
I take 3 1000 mg tablets of horny goat weed in the morning and 3 1000 mg tablets at night. It works about as well as Cialis for me, no side effects and much cheaper. I get it from Amazon and is made by source. I strongly recommend that you research it and give it a try.
I've tried another herbal product in addition; Yohimbe (2000mg) and it gives me a harder erection than anything else I've taken, but it the side effects are not good and it lasts a few hours. There are a lot of warnings about it's use. The instructions say take two capsules and I did and wish I hadn't. I tried one tablet and there was a positive effect but still side effects. I tried taking less than one by removing some powder. It gave a strronger erection and the side effects were noticeable but manageable.View Thread
The most important thing is whether intercourse is physically pleasurable to him. An orgasm for most men ends intercourse. My wife was capable of having a large number of orgasms. I would rather have multiple near orgasms and feel her orgasms with my penis. The other end of the spectrum is premature ejaculation which is frustrating to both partners.
If he isn't capable of orgasm outside of intercourse that is a more signficant problem. If he is, then it sound like you both are being to goal oriented and need to be more relaxed.View Thread