Hello, My name is Stephanie. My husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for 5 months. My husband is 27 years old. Over the course of the last year and a half my husbands sex drive has plummeted. During intercourse he will go completely soft. 3 weeks ago he went to the Dr. to have his testostrone levels checked, he's had blood work done to make sure he doesnt have diabities. All of his tests have come back normal. The Dr. basically told him, nothing medically is wrong with him it's all in his head and recommended he see a psychiatrist. The Dr. gave him samples of Viagra and a few other Erectile Dysfunction pills. I need help. As his wife I am clueless as to what to do. My husband says he doesnt know what's causing the problem. We're wanting to have a baby but it's impossible for him to perform during intercourse, let alone he has no drive. I dont know what to do, or who to turn to. We're too young of a couple to be dealing with this. I need answers. I want to be able to support my husband and help him through this. It's so hard not to be selfish with my own feelings on this. It hurts. It's almost as bad as being cheated on. I feel like there is something wrong with me. Any advice on what a desperate wife can do to support and help her husband would be great. Thank you so much for your time.View Thread
This sounds exactly like my husnand, but he's 27 years old and I'm 26.... Please explain that to me. He's seen a Dr. been tested for Low T and everything has come back normal. I dont know what to do. I feel so depressed and it's not fun being the one to initiate the sex or plan for it. I havent been passionately kissed in years. Making love? What's that? We only "f**k" when he takes a pill.View Thread
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