I suffer from retarded ejaculation and it is very different (and usually impossible) to ejaculate during intercourse - it is also very difficult for me to ejaculated by being masturbated by someone else. The only way I can cum is if I do it myself
I have heard that it may be due to the way I masturbate and that I need a new technique - it may also be related to use of pornography when I am stressed rather than horny - I also find that I touch my penis habitually even when I am not feeling sexual. Does all this mean my penis is becoming desensitised and can only recognise my touch ?
I have heard about penis retraining - what is it ? Would it help ? Should I stop masturbating ?