Em & Lo here, of EMandLO.com, we hope you won't consider this post an intrusion. We are working on an article for a major national magazine about Viagra use in long-term relationships, and how it affects a couple's relationship. We're particularly interested in talking with women -- of all ages -- whose partners take Viagra. You can be COMPLETELY anonymous! We promise 100% discretion, the magazine wouldn't even need your first name. We're interested in all stories - if Viagra improved your relationship, if it made it worse, or if it made no difference at all.