I have an adopted son from Russia too. He has many of the same issues that your son does. We like to say "he is passionate", because when he is good he is fabulous and loving BUT when he is off his is so difficult to control. He has currently been taking focalin and intuniv. The 2 drugs together have really helped him with his ADHD and his impulsivity. However, I am finding he is still having many outbursts, defiant fits or tantrums, and meltdowns. He is not usually aggressive with people but will throw things and toys when upset. His doctor suggested Abilify and we are planning on starting it this week. Is your son still taking it and if so would you recommend it? Many thanks and wish you the best with your special boy!View Thread