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-KathleenView Thread

My daughter used to take brand name Lamictal, but due to the cost, we had to switch to generic.......I was scared to make the switch for fear of her becoming unstable, but it actually went ok for her.
My daughter has been on lamictal for over 2-years now (she is almost 12), and everytime we needed to titrate her dose a bit higher, she became very irritable, but after 2-weeks, her body adjusted and the irritability went away.
We always have split up her meds. She takes Seroquel and her Lamictal in the morning, then takes her meds at bedtime too. I think it gives a better response that way.
Take care!!
-KathleenView Thread

You guys are dealing with SO much right now, I hope you have some good support through family, friends and/or church ?? You will need it.
As far as your daughter goes.....I hope the pdoc is being cautious about the ritalin, seeing as your daughter had such a manic reaction to the Adderall.
Its very, very tricky to diagnose children because so many symptoms can over-lap. For instance, my daughter "looks" ADD, but when her medications are right on, her inattention is very minimal, but when her meds are off, she acts ADD - (she has a mood disorder). Yet she can not tolerate any ADD meds, because she flips out, is aggressive, manic and will try risky behavior.
If the Celexa isn't doing the trick, has the pdoc thought of switching meds? Do the pdoc and tdoc (therapist) talk?
Here is a really great website that has been my lifeline since my daughter was diagnosed. I urge you to check it out for support. http://www.thebalancedmind.org/
There are tons of parents on there that deal with kids like ours everyday and are super helpful and supportive.
Take care of yourself (self-care is super important so you can take care of your family).
((((((((((Big Hugs)))))))))))
-KathleenView Thread

Just to back up a bit here............who diagnosed and who is medicating your daughter? - I mean what type of Dr. and what kind of evaluation process did she go through?
Thoughts of suicide are serious (children do kill themselves), and should be brought to the Dr.s attention ASAP.
Prozac can make suicide thoughts (and actions) more pronounced.
Waaaaaaaay back when my daughter was first diagnosed with a mood disorder (primarily depression), I just thought a Dr. prescribes medication and poof, the child will begin to feel better and that will be that. ......... NOPE, wrong.
Children need constant medication monitoring, changing meds, upping doses, lowering doses. And like I mentioned above, sometimes certain medication can make them worse.
It takes a smart, qualified Child Psychiatrist to medicate and diagnose.
About the other children . . . . . it is not unusual for siblings to "not care" about what is going on in their siblings world. Children don't understand the severity of mental illness.
They know if their sister is mean, they know if she is nice - they don't understand depression or thoughts of suicide.
In closing, I urge you to contact the Dr. who is medicating your daughter and tell them how she is doing and about her suicidal thoughts - it is serious.
Take care, and write back anytime.
((((HUGS))))
-KathleenView Thread

- Just wanted to throw out a few good reads for you in case you haven't heard about them yet.
One is: http://bipolarchild.com/
This is an excellent read with a lot of enlightening information.
The other is: http://www.ccps.info/
He has a lot of other good books and has been instrumental in me learning different strategies.
Take care!!!
-KathleenView Thread

My daughter was put on Abilify at age 7. I totally understand your concerns about medicating a child, but if the psychiatrist is correct and did a thorough evaluation, then according to medical guidelines and current info, it is better to medicate than to not medicate.
I'm just curious, because you said he was offically diagnosed today? When my daughters pdoc (short for psychiatrist) did an evaluation, it was over a course of 2-weeks. There were visits with my daughter alone, visits with me and my husband alone, visits with us all together (daughter, and parents and pdoc), paper work submitted from her caregivers and teachers - then a diagnosis was made after all the meetings and paperwork was evaluated. Did this happen with your son??
He is so young, so I hope the pdoc went through all these channels before a diagnosis was made.
Abilify ended up not being a good medication for my daughter and we had to do several med trials before we found a combination that worked well for her. I do know that Abilify can help many children though, it just wasn't a good match for my daughter.
I wish you both the very best of luck with the med, and if you have any specific questions or concerns, please write back!
(((HUGS)))
-KathleenView Thread

First off (((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))), you sound exhausted and defeated.
I understand your frustration - raising a child with a mood disorder can be very, very difficult and drain our own mental health bank.
I can send you some resource links if you write back with your state and city. Sometimes it is not easy to find resources, depending on what part of the Country you live in. You may need to drive a bit, or seriously consider moving to an area with better accessible mental health care for your daughter.
It sounds like you both need some relief - and fast.
I'm sorry life is so tough right now. I hope you have some support of friends.
Please write back, so I can pass along some helpful information to you.
Thank you!!
-KathleenView Thread

My daughter was first dx at age 7 with ODD, and mood disorder. While she does have some ADHD traits, we can not medicate her for such because stimulant type meds increase violence, impulsivity and anger (as your son experienced).
My daughter is now 11 and the mood stabilizer her pdoc (short for psychiatrist) prescribed (lamictal) has been our life saver.
Typically a person with a mood disorder needs a first line mood stabilizer, like lithium, lamictal, depakote or tegratol, then an atypical antipsychotic add on med for break-through symptoms, like risperdal, seroquel or zyprexa.
My daughter has been on lamictal, a bit of risperdal and seroquel for over 2-years now with really good results. We've had to adjust her meds as she is growing, but over-all life has improved dramatically.
My daughter also sees a child psychologist to learn coping, and life skills, because medication is only a partial fix.
I do believe that when she was unstable, her therapy wasn't very useful - - I don't think she could absorb a lot in her unstable mind.
I honestly believe the very best way for your son to have a good quality of life the fastest is to find the very best Child Psychiatrist you can possibly find to treat him. A smart, skilled, board certified Child Psychiatrist is priceless in getting a child stable, healthy and productive.
I am lucky to live in CA where there are a lot of qualified Dr.s, but I know in other states they are more difficult to come by.
Another part of my learning to help my daughter is this wonderful organization that has been my lifeline these past 4-years called http://www.thebalancedmind.org/
I highly suggest you checking out their website, looking around and even join a support group.
Without their support, I honestly would be a lot less educated, more alone and feel more isolated than I already do.
I'm glad you wrote - write back anytime, as I am happy to share my (our) experiences with you!!
((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
-KathleenView Thread

What is your son's dx ? If he has a mood disorder, has his Dr. tried him on a mood stabilizer med?
-KathleenView Thread

You need not blame yourself - - I could feel guilty I have my "big thigh" genes to my kids, but what's the use?? 3-of my kids have big thighs, and one has thin ones.......get my point?!
You need to focus on getting your child the proper help - - a good pdoc and a good psychologist to help with coping skills.
Turn your focus into not letting this illness run your life or your child's - - Get the attitude that life can and WILL get better.
Start researching child pdoc's and look into this wonderful organization http://www.thebalancedmind.org/
You are not alone out there, so hold your head up high and keep fighting, because YOU and your child are worth it !!!
((((Hugs))))
-KathleenView Thread
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