good morning, you are not alone! I feel for you and know what it's like to NOT get the understanding and support you need. I just joined this community recently and found your post. When you described the lack of compassion in your family, I was touched. I often feel the same way. I had to learn to "water" compassion in my husband. Nourish it like a plant whenever he shows he cares and truly be thankful when he tries to help me. It's quite a challenge to live with FM and an ongoing process. Take good care of yourself and remember that you are not alone. gabuschkaView Thread