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The young doc has also referred me to a therapy program 3x/wk that includes water therapy, and has also recommended that I see a pain management psychologist. I have yet to find out what the cost will be of the physical therapy.....but if it is my copay for specialist and I have to pay it 3x/wk....that will not happen. I am new to all of this....did not really know what was going on with me until recently due to having dealt with some other health issues. For those of you who have done all of these things that this young doctor recommends....did it help?? Was it worth the time and money? Did it improve your quality of life significantly?
Also, I came down with labrynthitis last week......terrible vertigo, vomiting, nausea. It is a virus in the inner ear. I ended up in the ER....was given meds that kept me sleepy and on the couch for most of last week and this past weekend. Although much, much better....I remain a bit dizzy and touchy with my stomach. I was told it would take 5-10 days for it to clear up. I have a couple of days to go. Well....after that long story.....has anyone here experienced this?? Does anyone know if it is has any connection with the fibro?? The ER did a CT scan of my brain.....and it looks like all is well there (lol...a matter of opinion according to my hubby).
Does the fatigue and self doubt about this illness ever stop?? I am so tired of being tired. No motivation at all. And I keep questioning if this is all about feeling too fatigued and overwhelmed ( don't really know what I am particularly overwhelmed by...but that is the feeling)......maybe I am not sick, maybe I am just lazy.....I should be picking myself up and getting busy....I should be getting focused and getting out and getting back to work.
Enough. I appreciate any responses. Thank you for listening....View Thread

From what my doc says, there are way too many people who are trying to use this diagnosis to avoid work and be supported by the government......and way too many docs that don't understand what this syndrome really is. Just like in so many things, it is the actions and impact of the few taking advantage of the system that mess it up for the rest of us.
I am so looking forward to getting hopefully some relief from the physical therapy. And I suppose the counseling will be okay as well. Thank you again for your reply...
KB(Survivor2007)View Thread

Good luck...
Survivor2007View Thread

I know that I will adjust to this, I just need to get my head and heart wrapped around it. As you know, once you have faced the big C.....everything else seems more reasonable. But it is tough.....I have worked hard to find and accept my "new normal"...and now it is up in the air again. I understand that after a period of adjustment, I will find the next "new normal" again.....but I guess I have a lot of stages grieving to do before that happens. I really never imagined that I would be at this place at this time of my life. I feel like being old just grabbed me.....even the cancer did not "steal" my feeling of life and energy. But this definately has.....and I am pretty angry about feeling old now. I hope this feeling will pass as I understand and get used to this.
Blessed Be......
KB (Surivor2007)View Thread

I have to admit that although I am smart enough to not take these statements too personally....they do echo some of my self doubt and questions about this. Do others see people with fibro as just a bunch of depressed lazy people trying to get over on everyone else?
I dealt with something like this with my breast cancer treatment. I was fortunate enough to not need chemo or radiation therapy. When people found this out, it was like I was not going through cancer at all.....that it was all over. I lost both of my breasts to cancer....and yet felt like I had to apologize for not having chemo and rads. Somehow, there is a perception that to be a survivor, you have to go through the balding and burning to really qualify.
I will email you.....thank you for listening.....
Survivor 2007View Thread

Yes, I have always been a type A personality. I have always worked, sometimes 1 full time and 2 part time....was a single parent, raised my kids in a nice home in a good neighborhood, made sure they had what every other kid had.....music lessons, karate, theatre, senior trips to Disney and all of that. Back then, it all caught up with me with a bout of Cytomegalovirus that almost killed me. I have always worked in the psychiatric and behavioral health field, starting as direct care staff and working my way up to programs supervisor. When my kids were grown, I was able to dive into my career head first, went back to finish my degree and lived and breathed my job. Then I met my hubby.....definately was not looking for anyone. And within months I was diagnosed with cancer and my world caved in around me. It has been a very hard journey.....I used to be in control of my life. I brought in really good money. Now, I am in debt, in collections, completely dependent. No energy, feeling so much a ghost of my real self. I can't say that it started with the cancer, although that definately knocked some sense into me regarding my priorities. I think the fall that I took seems to be the starting point of my "decline".
I do watch my diet due to the cancer. I will admit that my physical activity level has seriously dropped. After the cancer and up until the fall, I exercised daily...mostly walking. I live in a small mountain town, so walking is definately challenging.
I get blood work done every 3mo, and that includes my Vit D levels. I get a thorough check up every 6mo, full chest x-rays every year. I have been CT scanned and MRI'd more times than I care to think about. Most times, there is nothing to be concerned about....and I have had a few biopsies that fortunately turned out benign.
I guess you are right.....talking to the therapist may not be a bad idea. I just get stuck on the money and travel that it will take....and maybe afraid to admit face to face with someone that I am just no longer who I was...and am having a hard time accepting the new self....I thought I had dealt with this with the cancer recovery....View Thread

So, that's my story. I would appreciate any feedback or advice regarding what to do to take better care of myself and to get the disability through as smoothly as possible.View Thread

Accepting this will definately be a challenge, for me and especially for my husband. I will be providing him with print outs of information about fibro.....he is loving and caring....but I don't know that he sees me as disabled....I have not shared a lot of my concerns and physical limitations with him. He does see that I am not full of the energy that I used to have, but bless his heart, he has been through so much with me. He is not clueless.....but this diagnosis and the ramifications of it will be a lot for us to adjust to.
In my reply to MiMi I stated that I will be posting often as I learn about this and how to handle it. For now....some time on the couch today with the heating blanket.....
Thank you and Blessed BeView Thread

I have my Vit D checked regularly...it is part of the maintenance of the breast cancer as Vit D levels can indicate risk for recurrence.
I will definately check out the resources that you suggest. I am somewhat disheartened by the time frame that it may take to be accepted for disability, but at this point, it is what I will have to deal with. I do feel very fortunate that my doc is supportive about this...and understands the process enough to start collecting my medical records in preparation for the requests for information from SS. I will be able to provide documentation of sleep issues, mental fog, depression and anxiety, and damage to my back. I also have some neuropathy. My doc is also setting me up with pain management (have done this before), and a rheumotologist. So, I am hoping that we will have a pretty complete package to submit for the disability.
Thank you again for your response.....I will be posting regularly and asking questions....and most likely seeking some support and encouragement.View Thread
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