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I think I know how to make a mint julip. You smash some mint leaves in the bottom of your glass with a little sugar and a splash of club soda. You fill the glass with ice cubes add burbon and a little more club soda. It's all in a "rocks" glass and garnished with fresh mint leaves.
That horrible man should be recorded by the police or at least the phone co. You need evidence for court. Even a demented former cop cannot dispute his own voice.
Has your dd gotten an order of protection against him? So far he has been in control. It's time to get him on the defensive.
Food for thought,
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Did the game get played, or was the weather a pain?
You know, right now, having your granddaughter with you on weekends is a big deal. You make big plans. That makes stress. Once you settle into a routine, most of THAT stress will be gone.
Anyway, it is spring, the time of rebirth, hope, and beginnings. Enjoy it. Don't let the fibro take it away.
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If you get there early enough can you set up under a tree? How about an umbrella just high enough so you don't bump your head? Wear light colored clothing to reflect rather than absorb the sun's rays.
You can break up the ride with "Oh what a lovely view. Why don't we take a minute to enjoy it?" or plenty of potty breaks.
(Most of us have irritable bladders, anyway!)
Let us know how the summer fun works out. I'm sure you will have plenty of tips for us.
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Back in the 70's there was no diagnosis for FM. The only med my doc (a friend and neighbor who cared) could offer was 2 aspirin every 4 hours. I had to take my middle of the night dose, too. Guess what happened to my stomach did? Right!
There are meds that are less dangerous to your stomach. Talk with your doctor about them. Celebrex is one, but it is expensive. There are others. You'll have to try them one by one until you find something that works.
Are you doing the shower or bath thing 2 X a day? Do you have a heating pad or one of those microwaveable ones? Try them. Ask your MD about getting better sleep. (A warm bath really helps here.)
Whatever you do, do not take that Naprosin. You need your stomach. All of it.
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You came to the right place. Most of us have been to the same low feelings you have today. If only the pain woulod go away. If only you could actually sleep while you're in bed. If only.
So, the meds you were on didn't work and actually made things worse. Go back to your doctor and try something else. And keep going back until something works--even if it only works a little bit. And keep going back until until you get your pain level to where you can function.
Social Security denies everyone. Get a lawyer and keep fighting. If you truly cannot function well enough to work, you DO qualify for SSI or, if you have enough work history, SSDI. Your lawyer gets paid a percentage of your BACK (from the day you'd been unable to work 6 months) benefits and NOTHING if you lose your case.
You have pain. That is something that meds may or may not help. But suffering is up to you. You can sit around and feel sorry for yourself, or you can do things to make your life better. Learn relaxation/meditation/yoga. Take nice warm baths or showers (whichever work to ease your pain) twice a day. Do gentle stretches. (A physical therapist who treats people with fibro can help here. Watch out for one who pushes you to do things that hurt!) Add what exercise you CAN do to your day. (Can you walk for 5 minutes a day? Can you find a Y or school where they have warm water classes?)
By adding things you CAN do to your life, you can remove the feelings of hopelessness and suffering. As you read about our lives here, you will find the ways that work for some of us. Try some. Let us know how you are progressing. We care.
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Monday, I drive 100 miles to Buffalo to see the dermatologist. I had recurrent basal cell carcnoma on my face and get my skin checked every year. If I can force myself, I'll go to a mall where they have a Spirit shoe store and get this year's sneakers. You don't find the double wide sizes everywhere, and I prefer to try them on rather than order them.
MiMi, I'll say it again. You are so lucky to have your grand-
daughter back near you. It's wonderful that she has an active, full life too. Kids who are playing team sports learn a lot and have fun doing it. Lucky girl. Lucky you.
Debbie, hope your over the hill niece has a wonderful birthday. Please tell her that I was 37 when I started college. I went from full time farmwife to full time student and part time wife and mother.
Mary, you sound so marvelously creative. It's great that you've found a soothing way to start the day in your bath. Sorry about the neck. It does put a damper on things, doesn't it? I love the tub for my low back and the shower for my neck, so I choose by what hurts most.
Cory, you're so right about the lakes. We're right on the PA line and just far enough from L. Erie so we don't usually get too much lake effect. The poor people a few miles closer get clobbered! However, we're in what the weatherman calls "the higher valleys" and get late frosts in spring and early ones in fall. One year the only frost free month was July. The only things that matured were lettuce and radishes. Hope you get to enjoy your time with the family. Pot luck is a wonderful way to spread the work out. Try to get some rest and relaxation in too! You deserve it.
I'm trying to get in shape to make that Monday trip. I usually look forward to it and often bring a girlfriend along to hit the mall and get a great lunch, but the state my back's in right now, I really have to be religious about flexerill every 8 hours and maintaining the heating pads. Hopefully, the flare will be gone by Monday morning.
Have a great Saturday and Sunday, and pray for me on Monday.
BetteKView Thread

Your breast pain could be fibromyalgia. It could also be a bunch of other things.
- Is the pain something that comes the same time of your menstrual cycle each month?
- Are you on birth control pills or other hormone therapy? These substances are know to make some women experience breast swelling and pain.
- Are you a very large-breasted woman? Large breasts are heavier, sag more without a bra, and therefore pull more on chest muscles. (This and back/shoulder pain are why breast reduction is considered medically necessary while enlargement is considered cosmetic.)
Fibromyalgia can effect any muscles in the body. Even the ones on our chest. But you have to be sure that it is not something else--something more easily treated.
Hope this helps,
BetteK

The gabapentin (Neurontin) is used for nerve type pain. The Celebrex is used for arthritic conditions and other pain states. It's wonderful that the combination you are on is helping so much.
Just as a heads up, your doc may add more gabapentin in the morning and at midday. The usuall dose--built up gradually--is 600 mg 3 X a day or a total of 1800 mg. If your present regemin stops working, that's probably what your doctor will tweak next.
The Celebrex is a NSAID like many other pain medications. The big thing you will have to watch out for is stomach problems like ulcers. Be careful not to use any other meds that contain NSAIDs like aspirin or ibuprofin or naproxin. They are in many cold or headache remedies. If you add them to your Celebrex, your stomach could get a double whammy.
Stay informed. Stay safel
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I looked up sedimentation rate and found that if the rate is faster than normal it means you have an infection or cancer or inflamation. It doesn't say what a slow rate like yours means.
Sorry.
Wow! Your gynecologist must have been blind. Since the ureter drains urine from the kidney to the bladder, there's no way to empty that kidney. Wouldn't you think they've figured out how to stick in a length of tubing or something to do the job?
Are your legs swelling up with fluid? That would cause a lot of pain and weakness. It would also make sense if the kidneys are no longer able to do their job right.
I am sure that some of the other FMers out there have better answers for you.
In the meantime, keep your legs elevated above your heart as much as possible, and try to find answers in places like WebMD and from your own doctor.
Wish I do something--anything--to help you,
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