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I honestly wish i knew exactly what my wife suspected/thought already..that way I think I could approach it better with her. If she does suspect something, then she is really good at hiding it because the times shes made jokes, i will ask her if she thinks i like men or something and immediately she says no.[br>[br>Another issue i am facing is i have talked to quite a few people. Her couple good friends know, which got to her sisters. The sisters said they wouldnt say anything and didnt want to get involved..but part of me wonders if someone will before i get a chance to talk to her. [br>[br>Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get more of an accurate read on her suspicions before I fully tell her?View Thread
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What is your favorite part of Thanksgiving?
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"AIDS-related illnesses have killed more than 30 million people since 1981. That's half as many deaths as in World War II. And it's not over. An estimated 1.1 million Americans are among the 33 million people worldwide who are now living with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. How did we get here?"
Is there anyone you would like to remember? Share a bit about them in the thread below (no last names or identifying personal information, please).
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This article on Anal Sex Safety says, "Even though serious injury from anal sex is not common, it can occur. Bleeding after anal sex could be due to a hemorrhoid or tear, or something more serious such as a perforation (hole) in the colon." Please see your doctor to find out the cause for your bleeding.
If you decide to have anal sex in the future, make sure to follow the tips in the article, including:
"Use plenty of lubricant to reduce the risk of tissue tears. With latex condoms, always use a water-based lubricant.
"Relax prior to insertion of the penis to help reduce the risk of tears. Taking a warm bath before anal sex or lying on your stomach may make insertion easier.
"Stop if anal sex is painful."
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14 year old Jamey Rodemeyer of New York, took his life in September. This past weekend, 15 year old Jamie Hubley of Ottawa , Canada, did the same.
What do you think we can do better to support GLBT teens? If you are/were a GLBT teen, what do you wish had been available for you?
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Does this repeal effect any one you know? Do you think anything should be done for soldiers who were dishonorably discharged during the 18 year reign of the law?
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"Now that you've aged and your skin isn't as taut and tight as it used to be, that once-edgy and thought-provoking tattoo has softened and lost its bad-to-the-bone luster. Hey, it may not even remotely be in its original location."
Have you ever had a second thought about your tattoo(s)?
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"The studies found that the antiretroviral medications, which can be given as once-daily pills, cut the infection risk by as much as 73% compared to a placebo."
If it does turn out to work as well as researchers believe, would you want to go on a one-a-day pill to reduce your infection risk?
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For anyone who's interested in Reading More , "Drugs that suppress HIV in infected people may also help protect healthy people who take them from getting the virus through sexual contact, two new studies show.
"The studies found that the antiretroviral medications, which can be given as once-daily pills, cut the infection risk by as much as 73% compared to a placebo."
How do you feel about the latest AIDS/HIV research?
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You may also want to consider some lifestyle changes that allow you to get out of the house more. Talk to your doctor about diet and exercise, as you've mentioned how you don't feel attractive with your 50lb weight gain.
You also mention being with your current partner for five years, which I don't know if it means you were of legal age when the two of you got together. If you feel like your partner may become violent, please talk to your local authorities or call one of these Crisis Resources .
Take care of yourself and update us when you get a chance,
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What do you think we can do better to support GLBT teens? If you are/were a GLBT teen, what do you wish had been available for you?
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"Kathy Witterick and David Stocker of Toronto, Canada, have chosen not to disclose their child's sex for the time being, saying that they want to raise their child in a way that he or she can develop a sense of self without the stigma of what might be considered gender norms. The only people who know Storm's actual gender are the parents, siblings and the midwives who took part in the delivery."
Do you think this is a healthy approach to raising children? Or do you think this is some wacky publicity stunt?
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"It found that gay men had nearly twice the odds of being diagnosed with cancer as heterosexual males. In women there was no significant difference in cancer prevalence by sexual orientation. But cancer survivors who were lesbians were twice as likely to describe their health as fair or poor, and bisexual women were 2.3 times as likely compared with heterosexual females." Follow the link to Read the Full Article .
What do you think accounts for these differences? Have you seen it to be true in your own experiences or not?
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You sound like me, In my teens I had the pleasure of having oral sex with a friend mine several times. But, it was more than just giving oral, we would actually make love, kissing, touching and just enjoying each others bodies. That was many years ago, I married had children but now I find myself constantly thinking and dreaming about making love to another many. The problem is I found that in your 60's there is very little opportunity to meet someone with similar interest. I have tried Craigslist but am not comfortable with what I see. Do you have any suggestions on how a guy like you and me could find someone.
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I don't think noticing someone is pretty means you have a crush on them--I think it means it's something you've noticed. For instance, you may have noticed an actor or actress is good looking, or perhaps even the person bagging the groceries at the supermarket. Just because you've noticed something physical doesn't mean you have a crush.
You may have noticed other things about this girl and your other friends in the past, such as they're smart, funny, goofy, or whatever. That is part of getting to know someone.
Now, this doesn't mean that you might not develop a crush or her or someone else. I do have a resource for you that may help you figure it all out. Is This Love? is an article meant specifically for teenage girls to help them sort things out. Even though they talk about guys, you can figure a lot of what they say applies to both genders--no matter who you care about.
You may want to talk about this with a trusted adult, or see if your school or community has a GLBT Center or teen outreach program. The Amercian Academy of Pediatrics in this article on Gay and Lesbian Teens says "During early and middle adolescence, a youngster's sexuality may be in a state of flux."
So give yourself time and get the support of trusted adults to figure things out, and don't be in a rush to apply labels to yourself.
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This article on Sexual Orientation may help you with some of your basic questions. However, I'd strongly encourage you to explore all of this with a therapist who is GLBT-friendly. There's no way for anyone here to be able to wisely unravel the complex issues you've presented without being a counselor or therapist.
I would also encourage you to consider couple's counseling. Healthy partnerships usually require flexibility and compromise on both sides. Where you comment "His continued refusal to bend" sounds like an issue to address so you can both reduce stress and come to an understanding.
Hopefully one of our other members will share their story with you, too.
Write back and let us know how you're doing,
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"A new study shows the risk of suicide attempts among LGB teens is 20% higher in communities that are less supportive of homosexuality than in supportive social environments."
How do you think we can better support our LGBT teens?
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I'm going to Ohayocon with a ... Ahem.. *Good Friend* next year, and I was going to cosplay as Rin Kagamine, and he as Len Kagamine.
I'll be making the costumes, and I have a question,
How do i make the sailor fuku tie on Rins shirt?!
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Also, I love meeting new people who love Vocaloid...
I'm on Facebook, just look up "Alena Wile",
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"We do not know exactly what these experiences and needs are," concludes the report of a panel of medical experts convened by the Institute of Medicine (IOM)." You can read the rest of the story about LGBT Health Research Falls Far Short .
Does your health care team understand your health needs as an LGBT person? What has helped you get the health care you need?
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You sure showed a lot of courage and strength to get yourself back on track after this terrible experience. I think anyone would be depressed about having to start all over, and like you said--why did he attack you? Of course it makes you wonder.
Good news about getting the self-confidence back in the process of starting your life over. Glad the guy who did this is locked up. If you need it, be sure and check into counseling for support as you move forward.
Enjoy the weekend,
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I've had success using holistic medicine for back pain. How about you?
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Find out what Elaine Magee, the Healthy Recipe Doctor blogger, suspected and learn which soy "facts" you've been told may be myths!
How do you like your soy?
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