I am 38 and in a lesbian relationship and have been with my partner for a little over a year. When we met, we were both looking for a long term monogamous relationship. She told me from the start that she had genital herpes, but has never shown any signs or symptoms. We have always been very careful, but a few months ago I got herpes on my thumb. I am wondering if I can develop subsequent outbreaks other places or if I will always have outbreaks just on my hand? I am also curious if we still have to be extra cautious when having sex since I now have herpes as well?View Thread