I am transgender, married and finally starting the process myself. He needs to find a counselor that specializes in gender identity. This is very important step to verify he wants to. I have questioned it before but have made my mind up. After a few sessions go to counseling with him and ask questions. Do a google search for your local transgender group, Check lgbt website for info, and both of you go to there meetings. Most are very accepting of spouses coming and will answer questions with real life knowledge. I hope this helps youView Thread