Caprice , I hope everything is well with you and your family. I had my surgery( gallbladder) but not without a complication (pancreatitis from gallstone in the duct), but i am ok now...unfortunately i now have another problem but my Dr. has been after me for 2 years about it.( but with my husband gone i wasn't ready to deal with it) and now the surgeon is wanting my to do something (they saw it in a chest xray when i was hospitalized from the complication i had).I am trying to cope with this and unfortunately i know the outcome, i just worry about my son, its too early for him to be without a mother...i will not be back on this site as it has been 2 months now. i just wanted to update you and if you can ever email me( email@example.com ) or (face book laurie fifield) to just say hello i promise i won't get into my problems. I wish you and your family good health and thank you again for being there for me on my all my bad days and nights. I hope you get this message...for all of us in grief i pray our hearts can someday heal...View Thread
Caprice, I am to have surgery the 28th of this month but I failed the EKG and have to see a cardiologist to get cleared for surgery, I already new I had a broken heart .....I have to keep my feelings inside, believe me its just better this way.......My sister is just a day at a time and my sister-in-law is stable with her chemo right now....My niece is in the hospital..she is 5 months pregnant and is leaking fluid so she has to stay in hospital until she has the baby becuse it would be a danger to her and baby if she isn't in hospital when she goes into labor because of continuing to slowly leak amino fliud....Hoping everything is well with you and your family....LaurieView Thread
Caprice, I know you probably won't see this...but group is going terrible, spending most of my time in ICU with my sister...other family members not good....my heart is not ready for any of this...you were really the only one that understood me...I have not been able to talk to anyone who really wants to listen....I will not be comming back to this site, its not the same without you and i did try....so i guess this is where i am left.. to keep my feeling inside and deal with it....I fight deppression everyday and no one even knows it...thank you for the past two and a half years ...you did help me through some very bad low points..thank you for the times you let me know you were just sitting with me, it meant more than you know.. I wish you all the health and happiness your heart can hold........LaurieView Thread
Caprice so glad to hear from you!...I only responded to those who had no reply...I'm not sure how helpful I have been....I wish you were back you were right time moves us forward even if we don't want too....my sister is not doing well and it's breaking my heart.. I really am not ready for this....I hope you are doing well....Please tell me you will not be gone from this site permanately? you really are the only hope that has brought me this far.....praying all our hearts can heal....View Thread
TTYS5829 I am so sorry for your loss.... I will agree the loss of a spouse is totally different...My husband was also my best friend and I have a difficult time seeing other couples together and it reminds me of what I no longer have....I have felt and still have those same feeling of everything reminding me of him....I did not dream of my husband until just this past year...he has been gone 2 yrs. and 5 months....I know you will find comfort in the joy of your daughter...it is a hard road...learning to live without the we, us or our is challengeing...you are not alone in the feeling you have...I hope this has brought you alittle comfort knowing that you can come to this site and others will respond and offer help.....I wish you well and pray your heart can heal..View Thread
Robin... I am sorry for the loss of your mom...I am not a counselor or expert in any way...I lost my husband a little over 2 years ago...I know how uneasy these dreams tend to make you feel....it was a year before I started dreaming of my husand and like you (with your mom) he was there at times but acted distant from me...I started to feel guilty like I had done something wrong....my sister-in-law would tell me of wonderful dreams about her and my brother (my brother passed 1 month before my husband) I really felt left out and wondering why he didn't love me any longer....But I realized that he knew I wasn't ready for him to be that close yet...but he was letting me know he was there...as your mom is letting you know she is there....when the timing is right your mom will be attentive in your dreams..like my husband has became in mine at just the right time....I wish you the best and maybe others on this site will be able to help you also......View Thread
Mandyelizabeth87...I am sorry for the tragic loss of your friend......first I am not an expert of any kind or a counselor....just sharing my thoughts...I think that the loss of your friend is like that of people who have lost loved ones around a holiday time...and your event seems to occur a few months before your birthday...I am glad you are not lonely in your life, but the loneliness after a dream reminds us that we miss the people that were close to us and are no longer in our everyday lives.....although your dreams aren't as happy as they could be...just maybe your mind is keeping his memory close at heart and that can bring you comfort...I wish you the best...View Thread
An_244156..I am sorry to hear of your moms illness..I am not a counselor or expert of any kind.. but I don't think you can put a time on any type of illness because everyone is different with the way they heal....but your love and support will comfort your mom and help you get through the days ahead....I wish you the best...View Thread
Opal128....I am sorry for the passing of your dad....It is hard to go on with a normal life when someone we love passes...but 4 months is a very short time...i'm sure you are dealing with alot of emotions and sometimes it gets very confusing...give yourself time to adjust and don't feel guilty if you can have one tiny happy moment...i'm sure your dad would want you to be happy....you will learn how to live your life by taking it one day at a time..I pray your heart can heal.View Thread
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