Grief & Loss Community
Have you lost a loved one? A pet passed away or a lost a job? Grief binds all ... more
See All
Preferences
My Communities
My Discussions
My Email Digests

I started crying for days at a time and snapping at my family. I couldn't sleep when my Dad died and started taking a prescription sleeping pill. I was taking it for a year before I finally "crashed" and just couldn't cope anymore. I am seeing a therapist and a phyciatrist, taking anti depressants to try to help. The side effects are horrible and I have switched 3 times so far.
I used to be such an upbeat person, looked on the bright side. Somedays now I could care less. I want my old life back.View Thread

About 4 months after my father in law passed away, we started looking for another dog.I found that everytime I pulled in the driveway, it was like a wet blanket dropped on me and I was sick of walking into a hurting house.
I had a wonderful working dog for 14 years and couldn't fact replacing her, plus my kids were small and it seemed like adding alot of extra work at that time. My husband found us a puppy, I picked her up. We brought her home without letting anyone know and it was the best decision we ever made. She was like a ray of sunshine when you got home. You just couldn't help but smile when you saw her. Now I'm so sorry that I waited so long. She is definitely "my" dog and waits in the bay window for me everyday. I really think she helped me carry on and even when I finally broke, she was there all the time, not judging or pushing, just being there and loving me when it felt like no one else did.
I'm so very sorry to hear about your cat and I do understand the devastation you must feel. The only thing I will say is that if you can remember how good she made you feel, think about getting another. I think I focused on the end result of owning another dog and lost sight of how many great moments there are the rest of the time. Know what I mean?
Take care.View Thread

I can't tell you how this sentence speaks to me! Today is the first day in longer than I can remember that I feel ok. I have been sleeping better the last 2 days and I think the medication may finally be working. I am going to see a grief councellor when I feel a bit stronger and I'm hoping that will help me deal with all the loss.
Thank you so much for your kind words and helpful suggestions. (and I've always wanted to try belly dancing!)View Thread
See Related Mental Health Communities
Women's Health Newsletter
Find out what women really need.
Other Member Communities
- Dieting Club: 10 - 25 Lbs Member Community Share Your Tips and Support!
- Caregiving Member Community The Support and Understanding You Need!
- Parenting Friends Talking Member Community Get Support from Members Like You!
-
More Related Communities
The opinions expressed in WebMD User-generated content areas like communities, reviews, ratings, or blogs are solely those of the User, who may or may not have medical or scientific training. These opinions do not represent the opinions of WebMD. User-generated content areas are not reviewed by a WebMD physician or any member of the WebMD editorial staff for accuracy, balance, objectivity, or any other reason except for compliance with our Terms and Conditions. Some of these opinions may contain information about treatments or uses of drug products that have not been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. WebMD does not endorse any specific product, service, or treatment.
Do not consider WebMD User-generated content as medical advice. Never delay or disregard seeking professional medical advice from your doctor or other qualified healthcare provider because of something you have read on WebMD. You should always speak with your doctor before you start, stop, or change any prescribed part of your care plan or treatment. WebMD understands that reading individual, real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a qualified health care provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or dial 911 immediately.
Health Solutions From Our Sponsors
©2005-2013 WebMD, LLC. All rights reserved.
WebMD does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. See additional information.

