(((hugs))) to you! This is a difficult time and I'm glad you found us!
Williamsburg, VA? My favorite family trip when I was a child was to Washington DC and Williamsburg - what an interesting, history rich part of the country to live in!
How old are your grandkids - do they live near you? I LOL'ed when you said "oh yeah, I forgot children". My dad just visited my brother and I - he only wanted to interact with the 4 grandkids - my brother and I were left to put on sunscreen and fetch snacks!