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I did some horrible things that I'm ashamed of everyday.
In late August 2011 like the 23rd or so, I slept with an escort. She performed brief unprotected oral, I didn't ejaculate in her mouth. Then we had protected sex.
Then sometime in September 2011 I slept with another escort, she gave me brief oral but it was protected by a condom. Then we had protected sex.
Then in October 2011 I slept with some girl I met online. She gave me brief unprotected oral and protected sex.
During the 1st and 3rd incident there was some condom slippage I think.
Sometime between these incidents I got pretty sick. I had a bad fever and cold symptoms. I've read that those are symptoms of when you first get HIV.
After these 3 incidents several months later something showed up by my penis called mulloscum contagiosum. Apparently you can get it from skin to skin contact, it isn't considered a STI.
I was so stupid back then, I didn't know you could get HIV from oral sex. I had no idea. I figured if I was safe during intercourse everything would be fine and the slippage scares the hell out of me.
My stress level built up very high until finally around June 6th 2012 I went in to get tested. I had a test to see if I had the main STI's, they did a blood draw to check if I had HIV.
A few days later I got the results back, I was negative for everything.
Then again my stress level built up and I went in to get tested again around November 24th 2012 at a different place. They did a rapid test, where they prick your finger and check your blood. Once, again they said I was negative and told me to stop worrying.
So a quick summary, I got tested 8-10 months and 13-15 months after my horribly stupid mistakes.
I haven't had sex since.
The reason I'm still worried is because I don't feel normal. My mulloscum has pretty much cleared up. But I still have one pop up from time to time. The doctor said it should take from 2-5 years to be gone.
But the main reason I'm still worried is my body temp has changed I think. I used to be pretty cool like 97 degrees or so. Just estimating the couple times I've checked my temp. it was around 99. I don't know if I got it checked at a bad time or something cause I don't have a thermometer at the moment. Maybe it's the stress I don't know.
I've done a ton of online research and I read all over and was told by a doctor that if you get tested 3months after a possible exposure you are safe, negative, and have nothing to worry about. Only in one place did I find in very rare cases it can take 6 months to get a positive test result. I just look at the huge risks I took, and my change in body temp and I think maybe I'm an oddball and it's taking my body longer or they somehow screwed up the test.
Please respond I need advice to help me.View Thread
about 1 month ago i received blowjob form CSW without protection only.
No other incedent occure. No cut or visible blood found. now i am nervious. Some forum saying no risk (medhelp) some are saying some risk. i m puzzeled. Got tested after 2 weeks it negative. now i am in seriously worry. please help.. which i believe?View Thread
But he says the only person he sleeps with is his wife (aside from me) & any other sexual encounter is strictly oral (him receiving blow jobs). So it makes me wonder if he's telling the truth or just lying. So, on March 4th I took a Oraquick in home HIV test which was 6 weeks 3 days post exposure. It says I'm negative. Is 6 weeks a good indicator of my status? I do plan to test again on the 3 month mark (April 18th) just to know for sure. But is my 6 week 3 day result a good indicator? I'm just terrified that I can have a negative result now then at the full 12 weeks/3 month mark come out positive.
Thanks for any advice!View Thread
So about a couple weeks ago, my paranoia came back. So I did the oraquick test, and tested negative. I followed the direction carefully, but the one line that came out on the stick is faint compared to the example in the direction in he booklet since it was portrayed as thick, bolded line. Could I have messed up the test somehow? Or was my test kit defective from the factory? I kept thinking to my self the "what if" scenario, and its driving me crazy.
Will I produce hiv antibody after 8 years?
Please let me know your opinion.
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Now, this event happend 6 weeks ago and I called my local testing clinic. One of the specilaist told me testing wasn't necessary and since I've been having anxiety about the situation a few weeks later I called and asked how conclusive would a test at 6 weeks be. He told me that I needed to wait 3 to 6 months because a test at 6 weeks might not show antibodies. Now I am confused because I've seen on several websites that antiboties would show by a month and he is telling me that I need to wait atleast 3 months.
I wanted to go this week so I could get tested but now I dont know. I really dont want to wait 3 months over this incident. I need to put my mind at ease.View Thread
Two days ago, I was at a male strip club. I had chapped lips. My lips did not have any wide open cuts, but because they were chapped, there were a couple small openings with my blood being exposed to the environment.
A dancer put his hands on my face to caress it. His hands also touched my lips and might have come into contact with the openings in my chapped lip. His hands were moist with what might have been sweat. But I keep thinking the moisture could have been from something else, like semen. This particular dancer did not seem very careful. He could have put his hands on his privates and got semen on them that way (although I did not see hime do this). What sort of exposure have I had to the HIV virus? I know my chances of getting it are greater with unprotected sex or needle sharing. But what I went through still seems like a risk. What can you tell me?
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1.5 years ago I was injected with a needle used by 2 other people I knew, and it was rinsed in alcohol. I wouldn't have known anything until I heard the day after that the other dude (one of em)'s girlfriend was tested positive for something which she denies is HIV and is just herpes or HPV. noticed recently a giant lymph node popping out visible, but he is only 19 and I loked in pictures and he said he had it his whole life and pictures 2-3 years old still had. Anyways, onto the symptoms. 2 weeks after, I noticed some weird stuff. I felt something like a cold sore coming in and when to the mirror and lifted up my lip and on the lower lip, spread out were like 3 canker sore like things, and one on my tongue. I was thinking crud the herpes kicked in. I checked my body for everything every day, and really that was the only thing at first. Quickly after it was like a stiff neck, felt like tiny busses were driving out of the muscle, and at the time I didn't know what it was but I knew there was a pain in my neck and back of the head, and under both my ears. There was also aching under my Jaw, both sides, and so I went searching and discovered a lymph node on each side of the jaw each about an inch in diameter and can move them all the way up near my cheek so I can play with it when it aches. When I took a poop, it came out LITERALLY silver/grey. That was it for then, but the aching in the nodes never went away. So the aching continued and I was smoking at the time every day, and started getting a hot sensation, still get it, no sweating at night it just feels like my head is a hot filled balloon and my forehead feels really hot but no temp.(still almost evry night) When I was smoking, I kept getting recurrent abthous ulcers, maybe 1-2 a month and sometimes light pink itchy patches would come and go within the hour. 3-4 months after I got really bad bronchitis it could have been pneumonia. Still not really a temp. In the winter the apthous ulcers were worse, and I remember getting a really dry white patch sorta thing on my lip corner, where Vaseline wouldn't unchap it. I noticed I couldn't smoke anymore..when I smoked I would develop a deadly cough that wasn't bearable and coughing would continue. I got eczema like a really orangey red waxy patch on my thigh 6 months in and lasted like 4 months. Same deal, aching lymph nodes. Then a year passed and I had like 2 weeks of straight diahrrea. No illness. I got tiny red dots everywhere on my hand, and it tingled and burned a little later too (symptoms never happened at same time). Under my ears my lymph nodes on both are hard as rock, and I have gotten sick where lymph nodes in neck get HUGE and bulge like once. 14 months in I get sore throat, had tests came bak neg for strep, no white spots, with a bad rash on leg with what looked like to be mosquito bites but weren't, and went up whole calf. with sore throat I had thrush, its been a newer thing. Id also like to mention about 6 months in I noticed an orangey waxy spot on my genital area, its just skin no sores or anything but it changed color and stayed. I had a cold sore only once and in mouth, and that was 5 months in or so and never has come back. On my knees I don't know if its a rash but every time I get out of the shower it gets irritated and loks like a rash, and tiny pimple like things developed and sort of mimic a rash, and same with on the hair follicles on my foot. Both feet both knees. In the past 6 months canker sores and apthous ulcer haven't come back. I can feel lymph nodes in back of neck pushing in deep and feeling them semi-hard, and hard under ears still buy not visible. Still in jaw, and in groin slight discomfort but nothing noticeable and I think in chest too, in the pects area. Smellier toe nails too. Not really sick tho, haven't had a cough, I did have a sinus infection antibiotic right now. HIV?View Thread
I have been going through sleep less nights
I feel like i have pain in Lymph glands
May be psychology pressure.
Is viral LOad test definite after three weeks.
Also what are symptoms for infectionsView Thread
I know it's extremely low risk... And haven't seen anyone in the web that contracted it thru oral sex...
Should I refrain in doing this? What's the most update study on this?
ThanksView Thread
Anyway, I had an HIV test Monday and am getting more and more nervous as the days pass. I only recently learned that some of the early symptoms include a "flu-like illness" and needless to say it freaked me out.
I have read that if you don't get the rash or swollen lymph nodes you're okay, but...I guess I just want to feel better until I hear positive or negative.
Thanks everyone. I'd appreciate any input.View Thread
I asked this question yesterday, but since i did not get an answer i was thinking may be you didn't see it and posting it again. Hi Gail,
thank you for your answer in advance. Recently i made a big mistake and got together with a shemale escort for the first time ever. No intercourse or oral. We just gave eachother hand jobs and came. I noticed though on my index finger I had a paper cut at the top of it right around the first nuckle. Most of her cum went to her belly, but little bit i had on my fingers. I don't know if I got any on the paper cut area that I am not sure. All the sudden i have huge anxiety. I asked her status and she told me she never had any disease and she always have yearly exam which does not matter to me as of now. I am scared to death and was wondering about the risk i am exposed to.View Thread
thank you for your answer in advance. Recently i made a big mistake and got together with a shemale escort for the first time ever. No intercourse or oral. We just gave eachother hand jobs and came. I noticed though on my index finger I had a paper cut at the top of it right around the first nuckle. Most of her cum went to her belly, but little bit i had on my fingers. I don't know if I got any on the paper cut area that I am not sure. All the sudden i have huge anxiety. I asked her status and she told me she never had any disease and she always have yearly exam which does not matter to me as of now. I am scared to death and was wondering about the risk i am exposed to.View Thread
I have had the following encounters with different partners, al of whom told me they were clean from STDs/HIV:
--oral in which i swallowed (it was forced)
--unprotected anal one encounter with ejaculation (he said he was tested and is HIV neg)
--unprotected vaginal without ejaculation, not sure of pre-cum
(4 diff partners one encounter each)
I know I need to get tested and I plan on it...But I am very scared in which I am so nervous I am getting sick over it. My last encounter was over 3 months ago when I made sure I stopped. And I do not plan on being so stupid in the future.
Please at least give me some advise so that I gain courage to get tested. Someone please help.
Thank you
But I wanted to ask before getting tested and based on some research it seems like I have some decent odds on my sideView Thread
Last night I developed a fever and sore throat, just short of two weeks since I went to the bathhouse. I'm now worried that this could be seroconversion.
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.View Thread
I've written on this discussion board before, but I am still scared that I could of contracted HIV. I was involved in deep kissing where my gum started to bleed. It has been about 2 weeks since the encounter and I am so scared that maybe he has HIV and had open cuts or was bleeding as well.
Can someone give me some tips how to stay calm until I can go get tested? I called my local center and I was told my risk was extremely low but since blood was involved I can come in an get tested. I even asked a family friend who is a nurse who told me I was over reacting, especially since when I tasted blood I stopped kissing him. I'am just concerned that once we started to kiss again after my gum started to bleed that I contracted this disease. The anxiety is driving me insane!!!!View Thread
I often feel I've touched the body parts and now I'll get infected if I come in contact with their bodily fluids. Moreover, since they are unknown people, I don't know if I can get infected or not. Is there a possibility of getting infected in the manner I've described?
Ultimately, I end up taking a shower or washing my hands in fear that if the bodily fluid was infected, I must wash it away.
Please explain. Your response will help me a lot!!
Many thanks...View Thread
A few months ago I had oral sex with a few guys with unknown status. There was never any ejaculation in my mouth. I was concerned about my HIV status so I went to a doctor to get tested. The doctor gave me the INSTI test but told me that the test was only conclusive after 12 weeks. At the time I believed it was about 12 weeks after potential exposure, but after I took the test I went through some old text messages and discovered that it may have been done 10 weeks post exposure.
My question is should I get retested and what are my chances of contracting HIV with oral sex and no ejaculation.
Thanks.View Thread
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