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2 weeks later, joint soreness and lethargy. No coughing, sore throat or fever to speak of. This lasted about 3 weeks until I had sex with someone else that had a cold, and I got what she had, which lasted about a week.
I also have a rash above my left ankle that presented maybe 3-4 weeks after the incident and has not gone away. (I suppose a good sign since it is not on my trunk and did not last only 2 weeks).
I am going to get tested at the 90 day mark, but in the meantime, I was wondering how likely it is that HIV was transmitted in the way aforementioned?
Additional note: there probably wasn't any injury to my anus from the sex itself, as the escort had a small penis and what I'm used to putting up there is much larger.
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I was diagnosed back in 1994. My husband had AIDs, which we did not know at the time. Back then it wasn't so common as we fit into the "this cannot happen to me category", However he passed away back in 94,
It was terrifying, I did not want to end up like that, However, fast forward to 2012 and I am undetectable and have a good viral load. Its been a long road but I remarried and am happy.
I just want to say to newly diagnosed people. Its not the end of the world. Its the beginning of a new one slightly altered. With all the new medications they have now a days, its so much better.
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I am sick and tired of wondering do i stand a chance. I met this girl through a friend, she is a sex worker, we slept together on saturday 9/12/2012, we used a condom and it broke, I was very drunk and did not notice so we had sex for 15 minutes without a condom, until she had an orgasm, i also came inside her, I was so worried that the next morning i phoned her , requested her to go with me for a test and she agreed, both our tests were negative thank GOD, but then i realised she is a sex worker and im sure before me has slept with more people, and maybe without a condom, so the window period was still open to HIV she said she slept with two other giuys without condom and the rest she was careful!!!!!!!!we had done and ELISA test for HIV 1and 2 , my question is, I believ in God and know i cant be worried and pray at the same time, but why am i so worried, i have text her to ask abt her sex history in the last 3 months but she does not want to answer me!!!!!i have to wait for 3 months to get tested, im so worried what do I I do, I also am sniffling and is the 11/12/2012, are these symtoms already, she is an african girl from Kenya born in uganda.........she says her mum passed away fro HIV so she is careful, but if she is so careful why did she tell me the condom broke, she felt it and did not say anything??????????????what to do what to do????View Thread
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Greetings to you and may God bless all for your good work for the people.
Iam a 30-years man living in Africa and iam terribly worried if i have been infected with HIV virus.
I have had sex with sluts several times in the past; about 6-sluts in 2-months period and i have ALWAYS BEEN USING CONDOMS.
Few weeks later it started as a RINGWORM in my neck and then in my hand and later ringworm spread in my back. This is a condition that happened for 3-days. After 3-days, a massive rash developed in my abdomen, Butts and many rashes looked like rings but not yet developed to ringworm. In the stomach and hands developed rash that was like PIMPLES and was not tender. It is hard inside and seems like was developing to be ringworm too.
I have seem the skin doctor and gave me anti-fungal pills called TERBIFIN-250g and 2-cream terbifin tubes to use in affected areas. I have NO symptoms such as:
- Swelling lymph nodes
- High fever
- Diarrhea
I want to stop SEX and get married sooner possible if i will be confirmed OK in the next 3-months but for now please help me with checking the attached photos in a PDF and kindly reply before i go mad with my life.
Awaiting your quick and kind response.View Thread
I am usually very careful but i made a mistake last week. i saw an escort. It started off as her giving me unprotected oral sex (got a blowjob) for about 30 seconds..then we had protected intercourse.....for about 5ish minutes...then i took the condom off and she performed oral sex on me again until i ejaculated (not in her mouth)....i am afraid i got HIV from this encounter can someone help? i don't really have any cuts/sores on my penis (not that i know off) and i don't think she had any in her mouth (nothing that i saw..but you never know)....this happened about a week ago and i have a doctors appt in a few days to discuss this matter further....i don't know anything about the girl..just that i regret the incident ever happened and its gonna suck to wait 3 months to know for sure...can i get some of ya'lls thoughts?View Thread
who is owned by 1 person
he is alone in the lab doing all the tests
now im soo worry because i think that person used a
used needle on me
the needle was in 2 Pieces
1-the tube where the bloog is going
2-and the needle
after he finished my blood draw he took only the tube to test it without the needle
the tube was packaged and new im sure
but the needle was on the table and i cant remember if it was packaged or not
im afraid that its used and has some hiv blood inside it
that was 8 to 9 months and im afraid to go to test for hiv im crying everyday
also 2 or 3 weeks after that accident i got some symptoms exactly as hiv early symptoms i read
on the internet
do i need hiv test
am i at risk for hivView Thread
I know I need to wait 3 months, but after all that I have wrote, it has been 29 days since the encounter. Waiting another two months will eat at me daily. Does anyone have any opinions? Something relatable to my testing outcomes within the window period?
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Thank you for any help its good to get it outView Thread
I have been hanging out with a new guy who we have only done oral and I have swallowed his cum a few times. He is very reliable and I have known him for a while.
At one month from the first situation I have a horrible nausea feeling in m,y stomach for two days and now have the runs very bad as well. Is this just the flu? should I go get checked out cause I saw in your post the 95% would show up at 30 days wich just passed.
Thoughts? suggestions? Do you think I am over reacting?
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I was in a relationship with someone who just told me that this whole time he has been taking HIV medication to prevent him from getting HIV/AIDS. We had unprotected sex, we were trying to have a baby. Tonight he felt the need to tell me this rather than when we began. I know I need to be tested not sure when, how or where. Do I go to my OB/GYN and tell her that I was stupid and didn't know. I know I need to be tested but I guess I want some comfort. IF he was on medications to prevent him from getting HIV/AIDS then is it less likely that I have it??? wishful thinking I suppose.View Thread
I had a potential exposure in early October (received oral sex, gave oral sex for less than 15 seconds, was fingered in anus for extended periods of time, and the guy put his penis near/in my anus (can't remember if he penetrated, but I was diagnosed with Gonorrhea with an anal swab, and treated it).
I was put on PEP (Isentress + Truvada) within 24 hours and took the 30 day regimen as prescribed.
I subsequently took my first Rapid HIV Test (Antibodies) 6 weeks post exposure, but it was only 10-11 days after I was taken off the PEP, and the results came back negative.
I was wondering how accurate those results are, and I wanted to assess whether contracting Gonorrhea from this experience increases my chances of contracting HIV by a lot.
I am planning to go do another rapid HIV test in 5 weeks, but it is causing me a lot of anxiety as I read online that PEP might affect the "window period".
Any feedback on my current situation would be appreciated. Thanks!View Thread
1. what are my chance of getting hiv ?
2. do i really need to get tested ?
3. and get you get the symptoms of hiv in 2 weeks?View Thread
I undergoing given situation and I need help to decide if I "MUST" undergo into HIV clinical tests.
1) In August 3rd Week of 2012, I had sex with Two girls at the Same time
2) I used Condom, separate for each girl
3) It happened in HK SAR (I am mentioning this because exposure varies with Countries)
4) The girls are sex workers, one of them i knew for 2 months, whenever i go for a particular bar i used to talk to her, she always looked healthy and clean
5) I dont know the other girl (friend of hers) also looked healthy and clean
6) My fear is, after a brief session with the girl i already knew, I was surprised that the condom's gone
7) She pulled it off her vagina, it was stuck there, i dont know if it was long gone before and I ended up in contact with vaginal fluid (i am not sure the wetness that was on my penis was vaginal fluid)
I cleaned my penis with Soap water after this incident9) I am not circumsized
10) I Insisted the girls clean their vagina with soap before the session and they did that
11) Till today I didnt had any symptoms of Flu/fever
12) I consume drink almost every day, Ofcourse i had head aches and hang overs once in a while
13) I dont know if i sweat in nights, I had fever in nights most of the nights I am "Black Out" due to booze
14) I dont see any symptoms like swollen lymph nodes/fever/head aches/any symptoms of viral infection/whatsoever till now
15) I had a scratch in face (May be Due to my long nails in my fingers) where a very little puss formed now (is this a symptom?)
16) Apart from these definitely feel sound, strong and healthy
17) I am having a minor weightloss (hard to find good food out here!) due to that i am not having food well last couple of months
18) I never had sex with any stranger before this incided (apart from the sessions i have with a girl friend, i definitely know she is not promiscuous)
19) I never had sexual sessions with any stranger after this incided either (decided not to do with any stranger anymore, because i could not bare this uncanny, fearful, doubtfull feeling after this incident i am undergoing. It is very stressfull to spend 10 minutes before mirror and check for symptoms fearing that i have contracted HIV. So I DECIDED NOT TO BE PROMISCUOUS anymore and be faithful to my girlfriend)
20) I have not made any sessions with my girl friend after this incident (because I dont want to expose her too if in case i have contracted HIV)
21) I have not tested for HIV so far either, because we know that it we need to give HIV some time to be large enough (in count) to be deducted in our system, I was just waiting for the high viral load (in case i have it in my system) before i can undergo test
Now, I could not answer my girlfriend's questions that why i am not having sex with her these many days, I could not "All of a sudden" suggest to use a condom (because we never used one and she might question abt that too or find out that i had sex with sex workers, i dont want her to know about this, I want to get out of this clean and lead my usual life with my girl friend.
Now, I am very healthy, sound and strong with no symptoms. Should I undergo tests before I have sex with my girl friend? DO I REALLY HAVE HIV IN ME?
Kindly let me know if any more information is required, I am happy to answer. Million thanks for ones who is going help me, advise me regarding this.
Warm regards,
A good friend!View Thread
I've had sex with 3 people this year besides my girlfriend. It was not the right thing to do, and I keep going through these things. I go into despair, I get so scared, I am afraid I have infected her and it causes me more grief than I have ever experienced. I am so very scared.
I had sex with a man for about 2 minutes with a condom on, and he performed oral on me, a week later I had an HIV test and it was negative. I know that this does not mean much because of the short time, but my girlfriend was pregnant at the time. She had an HIV test when the baby was born a month later, and it was negative. How long does it take until you can pass HIV after you've had sex?
I had sex for about 20 seconds unprotected with a woman. She was in the army, and I know they pay pretty close attention to the soldiers' health.
3 weeks ago, I rimmed a guy for about 5 seconds, gave him oral for about 5 minutes, and he gave me oral.
What are my risks? I am so scared... I don't want to ruin our lives. I don't know why I do this. Each time I do... I get scared and go through this, but I never remember the pain and anxiety. I will never do this again, because this anxiety is not worth the pleasure, and I see that now. I am being tested tomorrow (in about 3 hours). I hope I can get a response or something... I just am very very afraid of what will happen to our future..View Thread
For the first few days, roughly until Wednesday, nothing happened to me. But around that time, I really started to worry about the possible contraction of HIV. So I started reading about the symptoms non-stop, every site possible. I went out and bought an OraQucik test (which was negative, but means nothing). Thursday, I started to develop lower back pain, which I suffer from often. I ordered a HIV RNA test for Monday (11/12/12). Throughout this past week, I have been taking my temperature, and it was good until today (Friday). When I got home from work on Friday at 2:45 pm it was 99.2. In a rush, I went to the ER to see what they had to say. I recounted what I have written here, and the doctor said I have nothing to worry about. They took a urine sample for STD testing, and asked me to follow up with the clinic that I go to for the HIV RNA test this Monday. Friday my temperature is 99.5, and I have chills, which come and go. I cough a little bit, but it's more of a clean one's throat attempt.
At around 2:30 Saturday morning, I awoke and took my temperature and it was 100.5. I had a very slight headache (which I posit might be the side effect of the trazadone, as seen below).
I am so incredibly worried and anxious. I took trazadone (50 mg) several times on Friday (which I normally take for insomnia). I am obviously showing signs of stress, like morning gagging, and loss of appetite. On Saturday at 5 pm, my temperature is around 100, plus or minus a few degrees, after taking some DayQuil.
When waking Sunday morning, I had a fever 101.5, and taking medication reduces it to 99.9 +/- a few degrees. At the moment, I really do not have any other symptoms, not really coughing, I had some aches this morning, but they went away. So obviously my fever has been increasing since Friday.
So I guess my question is, have I worried myself sick? Has my stress precipitated this fever with little symptoms? It has been cold the past week, and I walk to work in the cold, and take public transportation as well, so I suppose it can be a flu or cold. But is this either this is an amazing coincidence or do I really have something to worry about?
Additionally, what is, statistically, the earliest one can get tested using an RNA test. As noted, I have one scheduled for 10 days after an encounter. Thoughts? Recommendations? Should I trust the result? I will also get the antibody test at 3 weeks.
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I had a possible exposure and hence to ward off everything am getting myself tested. Though my greatest concern is this one, want to know what are other STDs. Great confusion arises when I read on the net, as I am not able to dif. b.w VDs and STDs.
What are VDs and how are the diff from STDs. Can anyone help me with list of VD's and STDs one who is sexually active should get checked for. I am sorry if I am slightly deviating from the main topic. I have only one yearly checkup left. SO it will help me in clearing off my anxiety. Experts kindly help me.
Hoping to hear back..
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I had an hiv dna pcr on day 28 and result was "Not Detected". Also rapid hiv antibody test on day 38 with Negative result. Another blood test at 5 weeks which showed Mono at very low levels which my doctor says was not responsible for symptoms. They did find Chlamydia which is now gone after being treated. Week 5 blood test showed my C Protein levels were normal, as were White Blood Cells.
I'm still very tired now at 9 weeks and feel faint consistently shortly after I eat meals. Still feel weak/fatigued around 3pm each day now (milder than extreme fatigue in weeks 4 - 5). Rash is both flesh colored, brown & red, cyst-like in places and subtle elsewhere, as if Folliculitis, but other bumps seem to not be around hair follicles.
Very scared at this point. Can someone please help me understand what's happening? My doctor says I shouldn't worry about pimples/bumps on rib cage area, and that I do not have hiv, and stress is causing my symptoms, since bloodwork showed no infection or inflamation, but I'm quite nervous nonetheless.View Thread
The doctor said it looked like I had BV, and I was tested for gonorrhoea, chlamidya and trichonomiasis. I declined a HIV test as I was terrified of what the results could be.....I wish I'd just has it now as at least my mind would be to rest. I was given metronidazole and a tablet for thrush (can't remember the name).
As soon as i started taking the tablets i noticed i felt even more itchy amd my discharge has become heavier and more watery. I got my results a week later which were negative for the STI's.
However I am still continuing with the after burn from peeing and very slight vaginal itching to this day. I have never had BV before, just thrush and I am worried this could be an indication of the HIV virus, as well as the cold I had! I am absolutely terrified right now! I was on holiday last week and starte getting a stratchy throat the last couple of days which i still have, nothing as bad as some of the sore throats I've had in the past....but enough to scare the crap out of me! II know that I need to get tested as it is the only way of finding out but I feel I couldn't cope if I tested positive, not just for myself buy my boyfriend who I subsequently got back together with! I'm just in turmoil right now. I can't eat or sleep.....I have no one I am talk to about this which I why I am turning to this forum.View Thread
One stripper of unknown HIV status gave me a blowjob a 40 days ago from now in a strip club. She spitted on my penis without condom and gave me blowjob. She did not use her mouth directly on my penis. I did not think anything about HIV about this. 9 days ago from now I had unprotected oral sex with a female in a strip club. She directly used her mouth on my penis without condom and I also did use my tounge on her vagina. Immediately next day of this, I got very scared and keep browsing the internet about HIV symptoms all the day. I am so tensed all the day, not getting sleep.I read HIV can be transmitted by oral sex aswell and read about HIV symptoms like fever, chills, sore throat etc. After 5 days from my latest sexual exposure, I got fever at the night and chill(my body is shivering in the early morning) and found rash on my chest. Rash went away on the same day. I started scaring more and more now.
I was worried more because, my HIV symptoms may come from my previous blowjob experience. Today(9th of of my latest sexual exposure and 40th day from my previous blowjob experience) have given my blood samples for DNA PCR test and Antibody test.
Waiting with scary for results as it takes atleast 3 days to get the results.
I am not able to concentrate on my work or anything. Not able to eat food because of lot of tension thinking about HIV. Daily morning I am looking at me in the mirror that any new symptoms I got or so.
Do people get HIV symptoms with lot of tension, anxiety or pressure thinking about HIV? Please suggest the best test I can do immediately to get rid of my hell of tension.
PCR DNA test gives me the approx confirmation for my recent 9 days exposure and/or 40 days earlier sexual exposure?
Thanks a lot for your comments.View Thread
I am here regarding a thing which is worrying me for past 2 days. I met this lady online and we decided to have play on the second date. So we got naked and then i thought of using plastic wrap (Microwaveable) and starting giving her oral sex. We did not have Intercourse.. i did not remove my underwear..i just cut a piece of food plastic wrap (microwaveble) and started giving oral sex. This maybe for 2 to 3 minutes. I had 2 canker sores (tiny) in my mouth..i also brushed and used mouth wash before this incident.
1) What are the chances of me getting any STDS (OR) hiv?
2) Is plastic wrap safe? Even though i used microwaveble plastic wrap, i think the pores wont open up until we heat the plastic wrap..Is this correct?
3) I asked the female and she mentioned, she had her tests done in July for std and hiv and she never plays unsafe.
But this incident is worrying me too much. Can i get HIV/STD from this encounter?
Thanks,
WorriedView Thread
1. The first escort gave me protected oral sex on my penis + light kissing + handjob + she sucked my testicles and I ejaculated on my stomach.
2. Three weeks later, a second escort gave me: kissing + unprotected oral sex on my penis + I ejaculated in her mouth + I sucked her breasts. I did not see any blood in either encounter and I did not have any sores or cuts on my penis. I never gave any oral sex to either of them.
Four weeks after the last encounter, I went to the sexual health clinic as I was worried about the risk of HIV. The advisor insisted that I do not need a HIV test as I apparently "did not have a HIV risk" and he did not "want to collude with my anxiety by taking a HIV test for a no-risk encounter". He only took urine samples to test for other possible STD's and said the results would be available within 2 weeks. He said I could take a HIV test at the 3 month mark if I really want to (for peace of mind).
The escort agency claims to test their workers regularly but there is no way I can verify this.
What do you think? Was I at any real risk? Do I need to take a HIV test? And when should I take it?View Thread
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