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It is with great regret and remorse that I am announcing my departure as the HIV/AIDS community expert. I have served in this capacity for a couple of years and I am truly thankful to WebMD and the community for this amazing opportunity. I have enjoyed interacting with the members.
Special thanks to Dan and Gail, the wonderful HIV/AIDS regulars here at this sight. They have been providing a tremendous service to those of you who have had questions on here, and oftentimes answered your questions before I had a chance to engage. Dan and Gail, thank you for being such wonderful colleagues and its been a pleasure to work with you.
Finally, thanks to all the members of the community who took the time to write and be open and honest about their worries, concerns and questions. Thank you for your courage and support of each other's questions and discussions. I will truly miss this environment and the interaction with everyone.
Thank you all very much for this tremendous opportunity and continue on with your sexual health!!!!
Dan, Gail and myself often answer questions around the potential risk of different exposures for those of you who are HIV negative - but I want to take a minute to discuss with you some steps to take if you do test positive or have tested positive in the past and don't know what to do? Here are a few tips for you:
1. First, KNOW that an HIV diagnosis IS NOT a death sentence! Most people testing positive today can expect a productive life similar to when you get diagnosed with diabetes or high blood pressure and have to take medications.
2. Talk to someone about it - either a person in your life you trust or an online community (www.poz.com , www.tpan.com ) - you'll be amazed at how talking with people who have been through it can help you through a tough time.
3. Go see a physician - it can be your primary care physician or an Infectious Disease or HIV specialist (www.aahivm.org ). Be responsible and get yourself checked out from head to toe to see if you need medications and other services immediately or can wait. There are close to 30 medications that are effective in slowing down the virus and the infectious and inflammation complications of being positive, so educate yourself and see what meds may be right for you.
4. Address your mental health - just as important as getting the physical checked out is taking care of the psychological. If you are dealing with depression or anxiety either before or after the diagnosis, don't ignore this aspect of your health... its crucial to you moving forward! Family, friends, pastors, spirituality, therapists, psychologists/psychiatrists... whatever works for you, just don't ignore it!
5. Communicate with your sexual partners - while its true you don't have to tell the whole world about testing positive, it is your responsibility to let sexual and romantic partners know. Many of us put ourselves at risk for HIV because we assume someone is negative, and many people adopt a "Don't ask, Don't tell" approach to talking about HIV. Be strong and honest - if a person runs or judges you because you are positive, they probably weren't good for you in the first place...
As always, take care of you first people, whether you are positive or negative... defeating this disease depends on it!!!
you caught me on the day when I am announcing leaving this community, so let me answer this for you quickly.
If you look at the odds, you should not be anxious at all!!! First, you don't know the STD and HIV status of your teammate's sister, and the likelihood that she is HIV is likely much lower than .01%, which is extremely small odds overall.
If you are a worried person who will obsess over this, ask her directly, but ask her about all STDs and HIV status - preface it by saying you are not trying to offend her, but because of your cut you are worried.
Oral sex is an extremely low, if not zero risk for HIV transmission unless both parties mouths have open cuts/sores, but the first issue is that one of the person has to be positive first. And the chances that she is are VERY slim, so I wouldn't get too concerned.
But like I said, if you are worried, do two things:
1. Ask her directly about her status 2. Get yourself tested in about 6 to 8 weeks - a negative result then will put it to bed.
so I found a summary of medications noted on a list made by a PharmD (Pharmacist with a PhD in Pharmacology) - and from the list, Intelence and Norvir look like when they are crushed, it reduces the bioavailability of the medication, or how well it is absorbed into the bloodstream and achieves good levels in the blood to treat HIV. The others are not on the list, and may be fine. So the question you must ask yourself is if you want to take this risk of crushing some and swallowing others whole... and there still might be an issue if the other meds will work as well if you crush them.
There is something about the pill or capsule releasing the contents in the stomach, and crushing before may reduce how effective your regimen will work. And if your viral load is 3 million, you want to give yourself the best chance you can. You could also look into seeing a counselor or a therapist to discuss anxiety and mental blocks with this, or even ask your doctor if you can speak to one of their pharmacists to get specific advice on how to better take the pills if the size of them is causing you some anxiety.
Sorry to hear you are having this trouble... and you're right, it does seem to be psychological, and is very common among folks taking HIV medications, but also among alot of people having to take lots of meds. "HIV fatigue" is what many call it, because the burden of taking the extra pills is a bit much.
Many of the medications formulated cannot be crushed and put in liquid and be just as effective, but some can. Let us know which ones, including the Intelence, you are on, and we can check for you..
Most of the tests out there do test for both HIV1 and HIV2, so you need not worry. If you are concerned and want to confirm, just call back the place you got tested and ask them the specific question. There are tests that don't do both, but most places have it standardized to have tests that are sensitive to both for that very reason.
sorry for the late response to your question. If she lived in ATL, I would know exactly who to send her to, but if she doesn't, let me know where you guys live and I'll ask our local dentist, who is amazing, if there's a list of dentist who are experienced with HIV care - he'll know who to refer you to.
Please do. And remember, feeling sick doesn't automatically mean HIV, and I think you're doing the right thing by getting checked out regardless, as it may be something else. Smart move, and please let us know what happens, I'm sorry you're not feeling any better...