I occasionally (once a year on average) use female escorts for massage, kissing, receiving unprotected or protected oral sex. I am still a virgin. I had routine blood tests for HIV in Sep 2011 and Jan 2012, and both tests came out negative. I then visited two escorts (from the same agency) in Sep 2012:
1. The first escort gave me protected oral sex on my penis + light kissing + handjob + she sucked my testicles and I ejaculated on my stomach.
2. Three weeks later, a second escort gave me: kissing + unprotected oral sex on my penis + I ejaculated in her mouth + I sucked her breasts. I did not see any blood in either encounter and I did not have any sores or cuts on my penis. I never gave any oral sex to either of them.
Four weeks after the last encounter, I went to the sexual health clinic as I was worried about the risk of HIV. The advisor insisted that I do not need a HIV test as I apparently "did not have a HIV risk" and he did not "want to collude with my anxiety by taking a HIV test for a no-risk encounter". He only took urine samples to test for other possible STD's and said the results would be available within 2 weeks. He said I could take a HIV test at the 3 month mark if I really want to (for peace of mind).
The escort agency claims to test their workers regularly but there is no way I can verify this.
What do you think? Was I at any real risk? Do I need to take a HIV test? And when should I take it?View Thread