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Thanks for the blogs, I have beenn reading through and have not found my answer. Lat night I had sex with a sex worker, In Nairobi keya, The first time for about 5 to 8 minutes. I ejaculated and carefully removed the condom using some tissue. Afetr sex i went in to the bathroom, put water in the condom to see if there was any spillage. The condom was intact at the tip although the condom was spilling at the base. The condom had broken just less that 1/2 cm from the base of the condom. I took the sex workers number and we have been texting , she says she was tested last week and was negative, she also reccomends that we go for a test together ( could she be saying this just to ease my mind??) So i have agreed we should in 8 weeks or 6 weeks, We also had sex twice more on that same night as i was drunk, i also carried out this water experiment twice and the condoms seemed fine, I tend to put water inside, and wipe with a tissue, squeeze and look for sppillage. This time I was unfortunate it had broken close to the base, and i feel her jusces may have swam all the way down to my urethra, the tip of the condom was ok ad had covered my tip..............What do i Do, very stressed at work, should I wait 3 months or I can go earlier for a test??????
Some advice for anyone who reads this, ALCOHAL IS THE CAUSE OF MOST OF MY UNSAFE SEXUAL EPISODES PLEASE DO OT DRINK AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE U DONT KNOW>
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Thanks for the blogs, I have beenn reading through and have not found my answer. Lat night I had sex with a sex worker, In Nairobi keya, The first time for about 5 to 8 minutes. I ejaculated and carefully removed the condom using some tissue. Afetr sex i went in to the bathroom, put water in the condom to see if there was any spillage. The condom was intact at the tip although the condom was spilling at the base. The condom had broken just less that 1/2 cm from the base of the condom. I took the sex workers number and we have been texting , she says she was tested last week and was negative, she also reccomends that we go for a test together ( could she be saying this just to ease my mind??) So i have agreed we should in 8 weeks or 6 weeks, We also had sex twice more on that same night as i was drunk, i also carried out this water experiment twice and the condoms seemed fine, I tend to put water inside, and wipe with a tissue, squeeze and look for sppillage. This time I was unfortunate it had broken close to the base, and i feel her jusces may have swam all the way down to my urethra, the tip of the condom was ok ad had covered my tip..............What do i Do, very stressed at work, should I wait 3 months or I can go earlier for a test??????
Some advice for anyone who reads this, ALCOHAL IS THE CAUSE OF MOST OF MY UNSAFE SEXUAL EPISODES PLEASE DO OT DRINK AND HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE U DONT KNOW>
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I am sick and tired of wondering do i stand a chance. I met this girl through a friend, she is a sex worker, we slept together on saturday 9/12/2012, we used a condom and it broke, I was very drunk and did not notice so we had sex for 15 minutes without a condom, until she had an orgasm, i also came inside her, I was so worried that the next morning i phoned her , requested her to go with me for a test and she agreed, both our tests were negative thank GOD, but then i realised she is a sex worker and im sure before me has slept with more people, and maybe without a condom, so the window period was still open to HIV she said she slept with two other giuys without condom and the rest she was careful!!!!!!!!we had done and ELISA test for HIV 1and 2 , my question is, I believ in God and know i cant be worried and pray at the same time, but why am i so worried, i have text her to ask abt her sex history in the last 3 months but she does not want to answer me!!!!!i have to wait for 3 months to get tested, im so worried what do I I do, I also am sniffling and is the 11/12/2012, are these symtoms already, she is an african girl from Kenya born in uganda.........she says her mum passed away fro HIV so she is careful, but if she is so careful why did she tell me the condom broke, she felt it and did not say anything??????????????what to do what to do????View Thread
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