So I spoke with one of the guys this week and he is now experiencing tonsilitis and oral infection. I goggled it and its stats could be from HIV..... I swallowed his load... I am so scared now!! Please adviseView Thread
So I am a gay male and over the past month and a half I have had some oral fun. I have given oral to 4-5 guys and never swallowed but I am sure pre-ejaculation fluids were exchanged. No anal sex was done so its all unproctected oral.
I currently feel fatigued, get hot flashes, stomach aches, wake up middle of the night either cold or hot, minimal sweats but do sweat a bit more at night (but not soaked), little bit of sore throat.
I was tested in May and results were negative.
I fear that I am sick and have HIV..... its always a fear of mine and I just need feedback. Thoughts? am I over reacting?View Thread
Test at 31 days negative.... how accurate and why am I scared I still have been infected when only risk I have done in 2.5 months is covered anal sex and oral with no swallowing with one guy and then swallowed with guy I am dating now who is a FBI agent and had a physical this week which was negative (done every 3 months)?
31 day test was negative..... please help calm my mindView Thread
So I had an emergency appendectomy Monday which was 55 days from when I had the brief unprotetced sex. Could this have been from me being infected and my immune system was down? How accurate is my 31 day test do you feel I need another test.
I went back to work today cause the recovery seemed great but now I feel like I have the flu again. Is this the 4-6 week flu like systems?
Please help I thought the 31 days was very accurate but now with these constant immune defiencies I feel like I could have caught it from the brief exposure.
Sorry I keep stressing and need a sound minds advice.View Thread
Gay male, had sex with another male unprotected for about 45 sec, told him no once i realized he had no condom on. we just jerked off after that. That was a month ago. He works in the arm forces and wears to me I have nothing to worry about.
I have been hanging out with a new guy who we have only done oral and I have swallowed his cum a few times. He is very reliable and I have known him for a while.
At one month from the first situation I have a horrible nausea feeling in m,y stomach for two days and now have the runs very bad as well. Is this just the flu? should I go get checked out cause I saw in your post the 95% would show up at 30 days wich just passed.
Thoughts? suggestions? Do you think I am over reacting?
I have had a few partners over the last month. I have had anal sex with 3 different guys but wore a condom each time and came in the condom while inside of the,. Condom didn't break and I pulled out a few times so my hands touched the condom (no cuts) but scared I could have touched my eye or mouth and caused some fluids to enter. All guys say they are negative and very cautious. Again all protected sex
I also had oral sex which I gave.. didn't swallow always pulled them out before cumming... though one persons cum splirted a shot into my mouth once.. Again all claim to be negative.
I have felt weak and upset stomach.. some nausea and fatigue..no temp but sore throat (no swollen lymph)...
Very nervous here.. checked for everything yearly in August and was negative and clean
Last night I had sex with another gay male a friend of mine introduced me to.
I was the top he was the bottom. When we first started he sat on my dick bare and I immediately told him to get off and put on a condom.. (5-8 sec span). We had sex for a bit than stopped no ejaculation occurred. We then started making out again and the same thing happened and I again immediately said I need a condom on I don't dpo bare... I pulled out and we then had sex with a condom to ejaculation.
The guy and my friend who introduced me to him both say he is 100% clean but I am freaking out I never play unsafe and this is making me lose sleep and appetitie.
Please advise me of the risk or steps I should take.
I did not see any blood or have an cuts/etc on my dick after .... but soooo nervous.View Thread