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I have been in counseling a lot. Trouble is,it's hard for me to find a counselor I like...
Posted by Marian4204
I have been in counseling a lot. Trouble is,it's hard for me to find a counselor I like and trust. Many counselors I tried needed counselors themselves in my opinion. I was simply appalled at how unprofessional some of them were. One was a young lady that almost had clothes on. I couldn't believe it when she walked in bare footed in short shorts and a tank top with no bra and introduced herself as the psychologist. I was stunnned. A man came to the door,who turned out to be an admiring patient,and she leaned up against the door to talk to him. As I picked up my purse,she turned and said to me,"I am so impressed a woman of your age would come to a woman of my age for help". I just smiled at her as I walked out the door and she was stunned. She called me later to see what the problem was. I said,"Well,you need to wear clothes and shoes,not let other patients knock on your door and see another patient in the room,not offend your patients with your comments and do some growing up. Only then will you be a professional". Another counselor called me and yelled at me over the phone because I hadn't come back.
So,I am VERY wary of them. It took me 5 tries to find one and I went to her until she retired,many years. I've tried to find a counselor I feel comfortable with but no luck so far. Can't afford much.
So,to be honest,I don't trust counselors unfortunately.
My BP went to 215/107 last night and I had to call my dr. who upped my meds and said if it went any highter,it's the ER. I am having trouble with my husband who actually gets angry when I get sick because he feels I can control my illnesses. He actually got mad when I fell and broke my leg. So that certainly doesn't help the situation. My BP is fairly normal right now but I have a massive headache. I guarantee it will go much higher by the evening.
I'm scared. It's just so depressing.View Thread
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So,I am VERY wary of them. It took me 5 tries to find one and I went to her until she retired,many years. I've tried to find a counselor I feel comfortable with but no luck so far. Can't afford much.
So,to be honest,I don't trust counselors unfortunately.
My BP went to 215/107 last night and I had to call my dr. who upped my meds and said if it went any highter,it's the ER. I am having trouble with my husband who actually gets angry when I get sick because he feels I can control my illnesses. He actually got mad when I fell and broke my leg. So that certainly doesn't help the situation. My BP is fairly normal right now but I have a massive headache. I guarantee it will go much higher by the evening.
I'm scared. It's just so depressing.View Thread
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My BP is giving me fits. It's always been easy to control but now it goes out of...
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My BP is giving me fits. It's always been easy to control but now it goes out of control. A year and a half ago,I had simple sinus surgery that went bad. I aspirated blood into my lungs,lost 35% of oxygen to my brain and ended up on life support for 4 days,in the hospital a total of 12 days and a nursing home for a week learning to walk and talk again. They said I came very close to a stroke and now sufr migranines as a result. Migraine activity can be seen on the MRI taken after surgery compared to the one before surgery. I am almost 63 years old and female. It was an absolutely horrible experience. I also got ICU Syndrome a form of psychosis that made me hallucinate and become combative.
Since then,I battled tremendous headaches for awhile. They left for 7 months but I got one last week. They hurt SO bad. My BP went up to 180/110. I called my dr. about my headache (My neurologist) and she wanted to put me on hydrococone. But when I took my BP pressure,I decided to stick with Tylenol because my BP was so high. My dr. told me to go to the ER if it reached 220/120. It never went that high and I managed to get it down a bit. I saw my dr. the next day. He added some meds. I now take 2 verapamil,2 coreg,losaratan when I wake up. I also wear a Clonodine patch. Sometimes,my BP goes very low but comes back up. But,by the afternoon,it starts climbing again. It is now 170/85. I took the afternoon verapamil but it only went down a bit.
My dr. wants to see me again next week. He may send me to a specialist. I am truly scared. My headache is back though not very bad. He is going to put me on a bit of valium but I have to wait for it to ne shipped to me next week. (crummy insurance).
I'm scared. I don't know why I can't get it down. I've lost 23 pounds. Yes,I AM a worrier. I haveour only child,35 years old,having his 5th brain surgery in October. I fell and broke my leg 3 years ago and it hurst a lot to walk but I can't afford a knee replacement. I have developed diabetes.My husband lost his job of 25 years and went through a period of deep depression. He has another job but it doesn't pay a lot. We are going into debt,can't afford home repairs.....It's just a mess. YES,I worry...I worry A LOT. I'm so scared I am going to have a stroke and tired of thse headaches. They cam back when my Dad died 3 days before Christmas. So,we are really under seige emotionally and financially. Even going to a hypertension specialist is going to be hard to afford.
I would appreciate ANY advice. I feel like I'm losing my mind.View Thread
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Since then,I battled tremendous headaches for awhile. They left for 7 months but I got one last week. They hurt SO bad. My BP went up to 180/110. I called my dr. about my headache (My neurologist) and she wanted to put me on hydrococone. But when I took my BP pressure,I decided to stick with Tylenol because my BP was so high. My dr. told me to go to the ER if it reached 220/120. It never went that high and I managed to get it down a bit. I saw my dr. the next day. He added some meds. I now take 2 verapamil,2 coreg,losaratan when I wake up. I also wear a Clonodine patch. Sometimes,my BP goes very low but comes back up. But,by the afternoon,it starts climbing again. It is now 170/85. I took the afternoon verapamil but it only went down a bit.
My dr. wants to see me again next week. He may send me to a specialist. I am truly scared. My headache is back though not very bad. He is going to put me on a bit of valium but I have to wait for it to ne shipped to me next week. (crummy insurance).
I'm scared. I don't know why I can't get it down. I've lost 23 pounds. Yes,I AM a worrier. I haveour only child,35 years old,having his 5th brain surgery in October. I fell and broke my leg 3 years ago and it hurst a lot to walk but I can't afford a knee replacement. I have developed diabetes.My husband lost his job of 25 years and went through a period of deep depression. He has another job but it doesn't pay a lot. We are going into debt,can't afford home repairs.....It's just a mess. YES,I worry...I worry A LOT. I'm so scared I am going to have a stroke and tired of thse headaches. They cam back when my Dad died 3 days before Christmas. So,we are really under seige emotionally and financially. Even going to a hypertension specialist is going to be hard to afford.
I would appreciate ANY advice. I feel like I'm losing my mind.View Thread
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