hello i am new to this site and i was hoping for some support and help from this site. My husband and i have been married for almost 4 years and have been ttc for 2 1/2 yrs with no luck. I was on the depo shot for almost 3 years due to how bad my cramping was with my cycle and then i got off of it so that we could start our family after i got out of college. I have had my hormones check and he has been checked and earlier this month i had a hsg test done and everything looked normal. Yesterday i started my monthly cycle and was let down again that i am not pregnant. It is so hard to be let down every month i called the dr this morning to see if i could be put on clomid. I just dont know what else to do. My husband and i just want to start our family and everyone saying itll happen when you least expect it or itll happen when you stop trying is so hard to hear. How do you stop trying for something that you want so bad. Everyone around us is gettig pregnant and we want nothing more then to be happy for them but it is so hard to be happy when you want what they have. And then they dont want to tell you that they are pregnant because they dont want you to feel bad or hurt your feelings is hard also. I have tryed to think that if it doesnt happen that i will be ok but i really dont know if i will be ok it is so hard to want something that you think is so hard and out of reach.View Thread
Im glad for you that he is ready to start trying again,and i hate that wait i do that every month and it stinks!!! I think it is kinda rude of you SIL to basically say well you cant be pregnant cuz i am and it will take away my glory. Wow my SIL just found out they are pregnant 2 weeks ago and if she told me that i would be very upset. Yes i have done the BBT i did that before i did any of the other tests that i got done. I have changed my diet a litttle bit but not much the dr said loosing ten lbs would be ok so i did that and my husband and i quit smoking and then when if still didnt happen after about 2 months we started smoking again but i have kept the weigh off, I started my first round of clomid yesterday so i am really hoping that this month will be different then all the ones in the past my husband is starting to get very hurt that we dont have a baby yet and it is hard for me as well but we get threw it month to monthView Thread
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