I am 38 and trying for my second child my daughter is 6. I have not had even a pregnancy scare since I had her. I was on the pill for about two years after her birth. My husband and I have been trying to concieve for about a year now. I went to a fertitility specialist did the invasive and painful tests to find out nothing is wrong with me physically to stop a pregnancy. So now I am since I am about 80lbs overweight that maybe I should lose weight and that may help me get pregnant and stay pregnant.View Thread