I'm sorry for the loss you have suffered. Miscarriages are probably the worst experience for a woman to go through. It is not only painful physically but more so emotionally. I can only hope that you have truly moved on from this experience, and that as time goes by the pain of the loss will lessen for you.
With regards to your fertility, have you sought professional help for it? I think it would be easier if a health care professional can help you through it. You can also try out testkits that do not only determine your fertile periods but your overall fertility health. ZRT Labs' Female Profile II Blood Test Kit is your best bet for this. The test will help find out if you have developed any hormonal imbalances because of the miscarriage which to be addressed before you can try to conceive.
I really hope you will have a successful try next time. Hoping for your good health. Best of luck!View Thread
I'm sorry you are going through this tough time, and that people around your are making you feel bad, maybe unintentional for some. This so called friend of yours, does he know what you have been going through? He should have known better that to tell you that you are bitter. Even if you are, as your friend, he should at least try to put himself in your shoes and see how you would really feel. He should understand how you feel. You shouldn't have to give him an explanation.
As for your husband, talk to him. Ask him why he is so apprehensive about going to the doctor. With the way the male ego works, he must feel embarrassed that he has to do it. Instead of being angry with him, try to encourage him instead. Tell him that there is no need for him to feel ashamed and be scared because you will support him all the way. And that no matter what happens, you will still love him.
If he really is not ready for now, why not try some DIY test kits for fertility health. This way you both can figure out together if your have any hormonal imbalances that might be hampering your plans of getting pregnant. I recommend ZRT Labs' Male Profile 2 Blood Test Kit and the Female Profile 2 Test Kit. They are comprehensive tests that evaluate your fertility health. This can give you a good idea of your health for pregnancy. You can also show the tests to a doctor, who can help you out if there are any complications.
You are both young so don't fret so much. Stressing yourself won't help you, it might even be the reason why you are having such a hard time. Why don't you take a break from trying to conceive and relax for a while. Enjoy your time together, so you will be in a healthy frame of mind when you try again.
Keep your patience and be hopeful. Exert effort for you both to be on your best health. Don't give up! Best regards and goodluck!View Thread
Have you gone to the doctor for check-up after the removal of your Mirena? I think you have to let a professional guide you through this. It might make you feel better and more optimistic.
You can also try finding out more about your fertility health. ZRT Labs' Female Profile II Blood Test Kit is the best solution for that. It will be cheaper compared to going to an actual lab for different tests regarding your hormonal health. This test will help determine if you have hormonal imbalances that needs to be addressed before you can try to conceive. The result from the test will also help you and your doctor work out the best plan for your fertility health to make conception not only possible but safe for you.
Indeed, atti_editor is correct in saying that as much as OTC ovulation kits are not exactly fool proof, they are a good start. This is so because charting your ovulation will tell you if you do ovulate regularly.
But, I think you also need to be aware of your fertility health along with the charting. This is important to see if your hormones will work to your advantage, or if your fertility is at its healthiest. Doing the test will also help to discover any hormonal imbalances that might hamper childbearing, so that it could be addressed accordingly.
I recommend ZRT Labs' Female Profile II Blood Test Kit. It provides an accurate result that is comparable to conventional serum testing. The result will provide you with the baseline values of your body. The kit comes with detailed instructions so you won't be overwhelmed with all the procedures.
If you think your doctor is not doing you good, have you tried a second opinion? Also you stressing out over this is not helping your situation as well. Why don't you take a break from trying to get pregnant for a bit. Relax for a while, like go on a short vacation; but don't forget to take care of your health. Try to condition your body for the pregnancy that you wish for. Maybe after these, you'll be blessed with your own bundle of joy.
Have you gone to your doctor lately? A thorough check-up, especially since you want to conceive, is a really good idea at this point.
If you have been missing your period, it could be that you have stressed yourself over this so bad that it had affected your hormones. When a woman is stressed out, there is a big chance that their period will stop
How is your reproductive health by the way? Emotionally and mentally, you might be ready for a baby, but what if physically you are still not?You need to consider these things as well.View Thread
I'm sorry you had lost the first one. But, maybe that should serve as a learning experience for you. Wanting to have a baby doesn't only mean getting ready for it mentally. Though, it is the best first step. Having a good mindset will help you a lot in your pregnancy.
The doctor's told you that there is nothing wrong except your weight. I think what they are trying to tell you is to help your body get ready for a pregnancy.
Your body will become a vessel for another human being for a period of time. It is only logical to prepare it for the journey ahead. It's like when you want to go on a road trip. You plan ahead and you make sure the car is in tip-top condition since it will carry you to your destination. Your safety depend upon its good state.
Having a baby is journey for you and your body. The safety and health of the child inside of you depends upon your own. The healthier you are, the healthier the baby will become. This is what the doctors mean. They want you to be in a better condition physically, so that you will have a good and easy pregnancy. It could be that right now your body is not yet ready for it. And, that is why you are having trouble in conceiving.
Take their advice to heart and do your best. Heartfelt and extensive effort is often rewarded handsomely. Goodluck! Hope you become healthier, as well as pregnant soon.View Thread
Well, I don't know what to tell you to do inorder to conceive, but I do have some things for you to ponder on. I hope you will consider them.
First, if your period has stopped already, this means that you might not be ovulating anymore, and that you are on your menopausal stage. This means that you might have high chances of having difficulty in conceiving, as well as the pregnancy itself.
Secondly, have you gone to a doctor? You need to have everything checked up to see if it is still possible for you to conceive, and how well could your health sustain a pregnancy.
I don't say this to be daunting. But, I want you to be ready for anything that can happen or might not happen. Being prepared is the best thing to be doing when trying to conceive.
Also, do you have any idea how your hormones are these days? They are the fundamental part of your reproductive health and conceiving after all. There are several Do It Yourself kits out there that you can try. One of these is ZRT Labs' Fertility Profile 2 Combo Test, which can help detecting imbalances in your hormones, which could cause infertility or trouble in conceiving. The lack or over-abundance of certain hormones will determine your reproductive health's state. In this way, you will have a good idea of how things will work out.
Best of luck on this journey. It might get rough, but don't give up too easily. The effort will be worth it.View Thread
Hi! I'm sorry that you are having such a hard time getting pregnant. People who want to create and nurture life are very admirable. Hopefully, you will have that gift in the near future.
How is your reproductive health? What is the history of your menstrual cycle? Asking yourself these questions will help you determine if there is a hidden problem that you need to address. And you should really consult a gynecologist to help your through every step.
But, if you want to have a background of your fertility health,you could try over the counter DIY kits. Fertility Profile 1 Combo Test Kit of ZRT lab is one product that could help you assess the important elements of your fertility.
Hi akeeta. I see you are worried about your current condition of whether you are pregnant or not. Have you consulted a doctor's opinion already? Maybe you must first look into your reproductive health first, see if you are ready to conceive or may have some problems that affect your overall health. But, if you are not ready to face your health care provider just yet, you can try a DIY test kit. ZRT Lab's Comprehensive Female Profile 2 Test Kit assesses your gonadal, adrenal, and thyroid functions to determine whether you have gonadal, adrenal, or thyroid dysfunctions. In this way, you will have a better idea of what is going on before you go to your doctor. You also will have more points to convey and better questions to ask.View Thread