My husband is scheduled for a VR in January 2014. We have three kids together and regretfully got a vasectomy after #3 almost three years ago. We have three sons and want to try one more time for a girl. I really need some support and just don't know where to turn. Any advice?View Thread
He did have his reversal on January 15th 2014. We have had to SA done that have shown 20 million sperm with 26% motility. Our dr said it is definitely enough to get pregnant. We are currently on our third cycle of TTC post op. Fingers crossed for everyone!!View Thread
Hey girl! Still waiting on my BFP! AF is due on this sunday so we will see what happens.
Im sooo sorry about you daughter. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I really hope that you get you January baby. Thanks for thinking about me. I don't get on these boards too much anymore. Everyone else has moved from here.View Thread
If you want children, im not really sure if there IS a way to stop wanting children. I think that the only way you can be at peace with yourself is if you go and get checked out by a dr to see if you really can't have kids or not. If there is 100% no way for you to get pregnant, than i suggest joining a support group. There are so many women in your position. You could also look into adoption or becoming a foster parent. A lot of children need your help. On the other hand, if the dr says there is a chance that you could get pregnant (if its natural or through IVF or whatever it is) I think you should talk to your husband about it and give it a shot. Like the saying goes..."You never know until you try". I really wish you the best of luck. Either way, i think a support group would be helpful. You need to know that you are not alone....and trust me....YOU ARE NOT ALONE. View Thread