My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost 3 years... and undergoing treatment for fertility for a year or so. We have done 3 IUIs with clomid, and the next step for us is to proceed with IVF.
I have been actively seeking employment and interviewing, but I am very concerned about being dishonest to a prospect employer. I am willing ( with my husband support) to delay IVF for 3 or 4 month depending on the job ( how flexible it is etc.).
What things should I disclose, what things should I attempt to negotiate. I have an offer on the table, and possibly another one. I know FMLA doesn't cover everything, and there are a lot of gray areas, like having to be employed for 12 months and or an X amount of hours before qualifying for any leave. I have spent a couple of month reading everything I can online.... but I am at a lost.
Any one in here care to share their experience about seeking employment while dealing with infertility/treatment?
Any person in here that has knowledge of how HR and companies think?