Where do you sleep at night, with whom do you sleep at night... my partner and I of 5 years have NEVER slept in the same bed... we both have different rooms... I guess it has to do with me not being in love and him wanting to sleep alone... anyone else sleep elsewhere... sometimes I fall asleep in the family room where I stay up watching tv...View Thread
Hi there friend7889, I have posted in a previous post regarding the same situation. except that I was 12 at the time I was sexually abused by an adult male. I wont go into full details on this post however I have recently (3-4 years ago) worked with a therapist that helped me deal with some self-deteriorating issues... I am also 38. like you I supressed my feelings for years.. it is unhealthy.. (mentally and physically) I too am taking anti-depressants and sometimes feel like a hermit at home by myself all the time... if you would like to talk more my email is firstname.lastname@example.org, thanksView Thread
Recently I went to a Hooters restaurant with my friend, mainly because I was curious about their wings.... anyone of you who have been to hooters know the food sucks and the wings are horrible... So my question is when going to hooters are you there for the girls or the wings??View Thread
I have always been secretly turned on by women in the Military... I'm not sure why (maybe cause they can save me from harm...lol) anybody else find women in uniform sexy and what kind of uniform makes you tick?View Thread
I have always been very emotional... I always cried as a kid, teen and young adult... I used to cry even if someone was just verbally scolding me as a kid... when I was 22 My mother died, (the only parent I had) and I cried for years and years.... as an older adult, it is hard for me to cry, I did gain a stiff upper lip.View Thread
I have been an active member since about a month before the old board came down. As I have stated before I am a gay man.. I enjoy reading all of the posts and most comments even if the issue does not pertain to me.... when someone asks about advice on their marriage, wife, girlfriend etc. usually I skip it because I cannot offer sound advice.... nor is a negative comment worth anything to anyone.. The reason I really enjoyed these board is because of the great "Brotherhood" we had. anyone could ask anything and everything without a harsh or unwelcome response. It is human nature for us to feel threaten by what we dont understand. I can understand why some straight men dont feel comfortable with gay issues. I welcome them to start new discussions and bring diversity to the group. Even thou I am gay I purposely try to post comments about women also... because we are all curious and human beings... I am sad some members felt they had to leave the board... where is our broherhood? I use to come here to get advice from my online "brothers and father figures". I think we should all man up and behave like men. I have seen the board deteriorate in openess and taken over by some members trepidation.. Let us step back and take a look at the big picture... We are here to learn, and teach... let us be more honest, open, and most important.. respectful.
I am only interested in helping to make this board more better and more diverse... I do not own this board nor do I feel I have a better say than anyone else..... all my words are meant with my deepest respect Thanks for listening...View Thread
Married88 this is a site for man to man issues, however your questions are welcomed if not by others than by me.... I dont believe you caused any trouble or problems in this blog, its mostly men behaving like boys...
Women have been reading and posting on this site and the old board... I believe they bring a different perspective and some maybe just curious. I doubt many come here to get info against their husband, boyfriend etc... I welcome the women who come here to post and read... I dont agree with the anon posters... they should have the courtesy to make a profile and so forth... they are not outsiders, but that is just my opinion..thanksView Thread