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I am married, have been for 3 years. I am 36 my wife is 24. We have a great sex life, she has a high libido and loves to try everything. She is beautiful, to me, and I think to many men as well. She is 5'7", very fit, fake boobs (32D), just a gorgeous woman.
About a month ago we had my guy friends over to watch some baseball. She made snacks, brought out beer all night, dressed very sexy (which isn't unusual for her). Well, we were all drunk and talking about chicks and tits and what we liked. I said, in a drunken stuper, hey honey show the guys what I bought you. She stands in front of the tv, unbuttons her top and takes it off, for the rest of the night. That's how she served snacks, drinks...everything.
She asks if they can touch them, I say sure honey. Show them what I get every night! So the rest of the night my friends are squeezing them, sucking them, etc. She loved it.
I sober up, appoligize and tell her I won't ask her to do that again. She says she loved doing it and she likes to see me being so happy that my friends are jealous.
So, 3 days a week by buddies and I go to my house for lunch. Have been doing this for over a year now. Wife makes us lunch and we sit and visit with her. They don't grope her after that night but they do get hard while they are there. Wife & I talked about that the other night. We throw around the idea of having her for lunch one day. She says she would love to do that! She says it can only be me and the 2 buddies that come to lunch. Nobody else can start doing it with us. Yesterday she shows me this shirts she bought for the "lunch". It is a see through half shirt that ties around her tits, very tight. Came with a matching thong. She is ready. Wants it for tomorrow.
What do you guys think? Am I opeining up a can of worms that I am not going to want later?View Thread

I let her read everything here. She said that she didn't realize the guilt that I felt for everything that had happened. She suggested we get some counceling I agreed. However, she also said that she doesn't want to stop our "lifestyle" in the bedroom and I realized that I feel different now. She is very sorry for cheating, she cries all of the time and she insists that she was so worked up from the events leading to that day that she felt almost out of control.
I don't think I want the other women because I don't want there to be other men. I don't want to share my marriage anymore or my wife. She doesn't think there is or was a problem with the consentual (sp?) things we were doing. She does acknowledge the cheating and that is what she is sorry for. The rest, she wants to continue. She said we can go back to just us and one of her friends but I don't even want that anymore. I don't want something that I won't let her have at some point in the future, it isn't fair.
We will start with some counceling. This entire experience has changed my life and everything that I thought I wanted in my marriage. It hasn't really done that for my wife and that is what scares and bothers me. I will let you know as things progress. THanks for the support again!View Thread

We have had mulitple partners (all female) together and there was intercourse and everything else but it was always my wife, myself and one other woman. This was several other men. You're right, the line of boundries could have been a little cloudy but I do know that she thought she was cheating. She hid it from me, that is a sign that you know it is wrong.
We are going to talk this weekend and get some issues out on the table. I don't know where we will go from here. I don't know if I want to reconcile but I do want to forgive her and take some of the blame. Hopefully she will forgive me as well.
Thank you for all of you support through this situation. It has been nice to talk to someone that doesn't see my wife as a slut and sees that there was a marriage involved in all of this. I appriciate all of the suggestions and support.View Thread

We haven't talked since last week, she has called me but I can't seem to get those really bad names out of my head and I would prefer to not name call when we speak. So, I ignore every call. I don't know what I am feeling but I just don't ever want to see her again. Maybe because it was in my house, on my bed. Don't know, trying to stop caring.
She has created a lot anger in me and after the thought of sleeping with her friends without her there left my mind, I just got really mad/sad/embarassed. Maybe I should have posted weeks ago!View Thread

We do have a relationship where we invite others into our sex life. But it has been stated many time by both of us that it doesn't happen without the other one being there. So, she broke our agreement, cheated and now she is gone.
Maybe that is why I like to have these types of relationships, because after it ends because she is a little slutty, I can forget about caring about her and just find all of the bad so it doesn't hurt as much. Next time I won't include a wedding or a ring, I will try to keep it simple.
Again, I appricaite the advice. you were right on.View Thread

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