Sure - get yourself an iStubble electric clipper. It's cordless and has settings from 0.4 cm up to 5.0 cm which can be changed like using a TV remote. You can find the exact length of scruff which is perfect for you and by using the iStubble daily you can keep it indefinitely.
I got one about six months ago and really like it!View Thread
I did last Friday but not today. Keeping it a now-and-then thing helps keep the excitement in it.
A couple of months ago I had a freeballing Friday and when I was getting dressed at the gym after my work-out my penis surprised me by slipping down the right pantleg of my jeans instead of finding its usual place in the left pantleg. The right pantleg bit was unusually fun in that my penis had to bend slightly to get in there and was constantly being rubbed by the fly-placket of my button-fly jeans, making me aware of his presence constantly. By mid-day he migrated into his usual place which on the whole seemed more comfortable for both of us.
Always amazed how he seems to have a mind of his own!View Thread
Am wondering if you feel this pain in your knee at any other time. When having sex it's possible to do repetitive movements which aren't common during the rest of the day.
Probably wouldn't be a bad idea to have your knee checked out by a doctor. And he may ask you under what conditions it happens; and they you could force a chuckle and say, "Well, doc, it actually takes place in bed in the middle of some good thrusting --and kind of puts a damper on that," or whatever you're comfortable saying.
In any case, it's a shame to let something like a knee injury take away such a pleasurable and important part of your life. Perhaps there are other positions you could try where your knee might not get in the way?View Thread
I usually wake up several times each night and it's rare that I don't have a boner when I wake up. I like that and find it comforting. And supposedly that's common for all of us: having an erection is more of a normal thing than we'd think from how things go during the day.
Growing up we are indirectly trained not to get our penises erect at inappropriate times -- even though that did seem to happen all too often during high school, didn't it? Anyway, we sort of make up for that by getting hard a number of times each time we sleep. One time I realized that I had awakened with a hard one three times during the night and thought of those TV ads for ED meds which say "if you have an erection lasting longer than four hours, see a physician" since that can be a dangerous situation. However, it didn't take my sleepy self long to realize that it was a different erection I was experiencing each time I woke up. I'm pretty sure, anyway.
How are your an erections a problem for rolling over? One's penis will bend to accommodate the shifting position. And if you sleep nude, at least from the waist down which I recommend, you'll just comfortably flop to accommodate the change in landscape.
Bottom line -- if you'd feel more comfortable talking which your doctor about it, I'd do that. If nothing else it might make it easier for you to talk with him about sexual issues, something which isn't the easiest to do.View Thread
Guess the first time I was seen with my "big boy" was when I transferred to a high school which had a weekly gym class with lockers and mandatory showers. I probably had hair coming in and had reached full soft length by the time I graduated.
Now as far as having a 'used' or 'experienced' penis of mine seen by others -- that must have been some time later at another gym locker room. After the first time I had sexual intercourse I thought that my penis had permanently grown to its hard length when soft, glowed in the dark, vibrated and sent off signals. No, of course it didn't, but I was just sure that everybody could tell that I wasn't a virgin any more! I guess well felt proud and stood a little taller when that landmark happened. I'm feeling good now just remembering it.View Thread
And you know, this whole experience can also happen from the other direction: I remember one time a couple years ago when I may have turned out to be someone's first nude adult man sighting outside of the family.
The city gym at a nearby city was having a nude swim night on a Saturday evening. Since I hadn't been nude swimming in an indoor pool with other people since college I thought it would be fun to go and feel the freedom in the water again. One difference, though: this time it was both genders and all ages as the facility had been rented by a local nudist organization for the evening as a private party. While I'm not into organized nudism, their event was an opportunity I wanted to try out.
Getting there just as the event was starting I went into the gym's men's locker room to take off and stow my clothes -- a habit, since a lot of people just shucked theirs at the pool's edge. Anyway, while I was there starting to undress a guy with two small sons, about ages 4 and 6 came in. When they saw me one of the little boys came out with one of those highly audible stage whispers which children do so well. With a combination of amazement and uncertainty, he said, "Dad! We're going to see his penis!" And the father calmly responded, "And he's going to see yours. Just get undressed."
Within moments the boys were fully occupied with getting ready for an evening of fun -- and it was wonderful seeing them later out at the pool area, running around, jumping off of the diving board and having a great time -- human 'cubs' at play, probably not giving their nudity a moment's thought. And they probably got to see up to 100 new nude penises that evening and probably didn't think that much about them. And it wasn't until this thread came along that I stopped to think, "hey, maybe I was their first!" And maybe years from now, do you suppose they'll be writing about it?View Thread
My first nude penis sighting was my Dad's. And it was such a common occurrence I didn't think much about it and certainly don't remember the first time. Funny thing in looking back is that I am remembering being about three years old and seeing Dad getting out of the bathtub. He didn't have much body hair (must get mine from my mother's side) but there was a big bush around his penis. I asked if I would get hair there too, and my Mom told me I would. For some reason I wasn't too keen on the idea and I declared quite definitely that if I ever grew hair around my penis I would shave it off! What's funny is that thinking back on my childhood declaration is that for the last couple of years I've been shaving my penis and balls twice a week and trimming my pubes at least quarterly. Not quite what I meant back as a little kid, but it's a lot more than I did for a whole bunch of years in between. Funny how we do change.
The first adult nude penis I encountered that wasn't my Dad's or grandfather's belonged to a guy we were houseguests of when I was seven. Their house was close to the beach and we walkded down for a swim, stopping at a beach cabana to change. There was a main room with some small cubicles at the side with curtains. After the three of us entered the main room Dad and our host started to strip to change into swimsuits. Being new to all of this I asked if we shouldn't go over to the cubicles. Dad just smiled and said that men didn't bother with that. So I just took my clothes off and I'll admit I didn't hide looking up and down at both my Dad and our host, marveling at their joint nudity and flopping penises. We were all facing each other and they both smiled at me -- sort of an initiation, I guess, looking back at it. It felt funny or strange at first but I thought OK, if it's all right, why not! More or less the same feeling years later when I went to my first coed nude beach. After a minute or two of feeling strange I realized I was very much like everyone else, and that was fine.View Thread
Yup, no real change. Twice a week feels good! Glad I got the idea to try it from you guys here on the board.
I did get busy one time a few months back and missed shaving the area for about six weeks. I couldn't believe the jungle of hair which had grown in -- and how wonderful it felt (and how much bigger things looked) once I got clean and shaved up again.
Besides, handling my equipment and getting it to look good feels good in and of itself. Another reason for some penis handling -- what argument could there be against that??View Thread
I'm a fluffer. But only after I've removed the restrictions of clothing.
After a workout it really feels great to get back to the locker room and peel off the clothes, especially if they've gotten soggy with sweat. And once the jockstrap comes off (yes, I'm one of the old-timers who still uses one) it's an unconscious act to fluff up those stuck-together pendulous parts which have been stuffed away in cramped corners. Fluffing doesn't get me hard at all, as that's not the purpose. But I do get a little bigger just swinging free -- and having had a little self-attention. They I head off to the showers/steam room to clean-up and relax. Sometimes there will be some more touching later as feels comfortable -- I don't let other people being around stop that. It's just part of who I am and where I am.View Thread
Sure, Polfsky, I would be glad to hear from you one-on-one off line. I may not answer as quickly that way as I might here on the boards but I do check the e-mail address listed under "Spotlight: Members Stories" regularly and enjoy corresponding with guys I meet here.
Hope your new year is full and rich with good things.View Thread