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gymrat44

Joined: 03/15/2011

My Story:

In my 60s, bought my first barbell in high school 50 years ago and still work out four or five times a week. Getting to know and enjoy my body has included shining the flashilight into all corners of my sexualtiy and learning to enjoy that as well. A really good workout can be as good as sex; and great sex can be quite a workout!

I believe we are all potentially bisexual and over time develop ourselves at a particular point on the same-sex to opposite-sex continuum. Once we accept where we are and have come to terms with that we can be at peace and come to terms with others wherever they may be. I consider myself "straight" but realize that that's only part of who I am.

Have been married to two wonderful yet very different women and have learned much from them.

For one-on-one conversation my e-mail is: thegymrat44@aol.com

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Reply: Freeballing Friday???

I did last Friday but not today. Keeping it a now-and-then thing helps keep the excitement...

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1 Reply | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Freeballing Friday??? I did last Friday but not today. Keeping it a now-and-then thing helps keep the excitement...

Reply: Extreme pain in knee during sex

Am wondering if you feel this pain in your knee at any other time. When having sex it's...

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1 Reply | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Extreme pain in knee during sex Am wondering if you feel this pain in your knee at any other time. When having sex it's...

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I usually wake up several times each night and it's rare that I don't have a boner when I...

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4 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Nocturnal Erections I usually wake up several times each night and it's rare that I don't have a boner when I...

Reply: First nude adult man sighting

Guess the first time I was seen with my "big boy" was when I transferred to a high school...

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14 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:First nude adult man sighting Guess the first time I was seen with my "big boy" was when I transferred to a high school...

Reply: First nude adult man sighting

And you know, this whole experience can also happen from the other direction: I remember...

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And you know, this whole experience can also happen from the other direction: I remember one time a couple years ago when I may have turned out to be someone's first nude adult man sighting outside of the family.

The city gym at a nearby city was having a nude swim night on a Saturday evening. Since I hadn't been nude swimming in an indoor pool with other people since college I thought it would be fun to go and feel the freedom in the water again. One difference, though: this time it was both genders and all ages as the facility had been rented by a local nudist organization for the evening as a private party. While I'm not into organized nudism, their event was an opportunity I wanted to try out.

Getting there just as the event was starting I went into the gym's men's locker room to take off and stow my clothes -- a habit, since a lot of people just shucked theirs at the pool's edge. Anyway, while I was there starting to undress a guy with two small sons, about ages 4 and 6 came in. When they saw me one of the little boys came out with one of those highly audible stage whispers which children do so well. With a combination of amazement and uncertainty, he said, "Dad! We're going to see his penis!" And the father calmly responded, "And he's going to see yours. Just get undressed."

Within moments the boys were fully occupied with getting ready for an evening of fun -- and it was wonderful seeing them later out at the pool area, running around, jumping off of the diving board and having a great time -- human 'cubs' at play, probably not giving their nudity a moment's thought. And they probably got to see up to 100 new nude penises that evening and probably didn't think that much about them. And it wasn't until this thread came along that I stopped to think, "hey, maybe I was their first!" And maybe years from now, do you suppose they'll be writing about it?View Thread

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My first nude penis sighting was my Dad's. And it was such a common occurrence I didn't...

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My first nude penis sighting was my Dad's. And it was such a common occurrence I didn't think much about it and certainly don't remember the first time. Funny thing in looking back is that I am remembering being about three years old and seeing Dad getting out of the bathtub. He didn't have much body hair (must get mine from my mother's side) but there was a big bush around his penis. I asked if I would get hair there too, and my Mom told me I would. For some reason I wasn't too keen on the idea and I declared quite definitely that if I ever grew hair around my penis I would shave it off! What's funny is that thinking back on my childhood declaration is that for the last couple of years I've been shaving my penis and balls twice a week and trimming my pubes at least quarterly. Not quite what I meant back as a little kid, but it's a lot more than I did for a whole bunch of years in between. Funny how we do change.

The first adult nude penis I encountered that wasn't my Dad's or grandfather's belonged to a guy we were houseguests of when I was seven. Their house was close to the beach and we walkded down for a swim, stopping at a beach cabana to change. There was a main room with some small cubicles at the side with curtains. After the three of us entered the main room Dad and our host started to strip to change into swimsuits. Being new to all of this I asked if we shouldn't go over to the cubicles. Dad just smiled and said that men didn't bother with that. So I just took my clothes off and I'll admit I didn't hide looking up and down at both my Dad and our host, marveling at their joint nudity and flopping penises. We were all facing each other and they both smiled at me -- sort of an initiation, I guess, looking back at it. It felt funny or strange at first but I thought OK, if it's all right, why not! More or less the same feeling years later when I went to my first coed nude beach. After a minute or two of feeling strange I realized I was very much like everyone else, and that was fine.View Thread

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14 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:First nude adult man sighting My first nude penis sighting was my Dad's. And it was such a common occurrence I didn't...

Reply: Shaving below the belt line

Yup, no real change. Twice a week feels good! Glad I got the idea to try it from you guys...

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7 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Shaving below the belt line Yup, no real change. Twice a week feels good! Glad I got the idea to try it from you guys...

Reply: Are You A FLUFFER

I'm a fluffer. But only after I've removed the restrictions of clothing. After a workout...

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1 Reply | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Are You A FLUFFER I'm a fluffer. But only after I've removed the restrictions of clothing. After a workout...

Reply: Remembering Nude Times with Dad

Sure, Polfsky, I would be glad to hear from you one-on-one off line. I may not answer as...

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6 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Remembering Nude Times with Dad Sure, Polfsky, I would be glad to hear from you one-on-one off line. I may not answer as...

Reply: Remembering Nude Times with Dad

Glad you liked what I had to say. And i would have enjoyed having sons -- life doesn't...

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6 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Remembering Nude Times with Dad Glad you liked what I had to say. And i would have enjoyed having sons -- life doesn't...

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