Any of your skin will hurt if it gets sunburned. But I have always included my penis and scrotum when applying suntan lotion when I was at a nude beach and those parts never got a burn. And when sunning while lying on my back I'd even make sure that half the time my penis was pointing up and half the time it was pointing down -- that way both the front and the back got an even tan.View Thread
When I go to bed. And when I get up. When I go for a swim in a pond, a lake, a river, in the ocean. When I'm in the steam room or the sauna When I run along the water's edge at the beach in late afternoon and watch the huge shadow of my penis bob up and down with each step of my run. When I have sex. When I work out in the back yard early in the morning while it's still dark outside. Whenever I can. Whatever it is, it's usually better without clothes.View Thread
Jrocker, thanks for letting me know you enjoyed my story. I appreciate your kind words but even more I appreciate that I helped stiffen you up! That thought is now turning full circle and is now getting me going. Fortunately, there's a men's room down the hall.View Thread
Usually setting a scene for some self-pleasuring doesn't involve including a sound track, even though music is very important in adding emotion. Ever think of what a role it plays in the movies we go to? Sometimes I won't even be aware of the music -- but it's there and it does add to the total experience..
I don't think about including music when I'm scheduling some QPT (Quality Penis Time) -- which is too bad, since it can have an impact. But I do remember one time some years back when music did add to my experience, even though I hadn't planned it.
It was one of those quiet, easy mornings when you wake up slowly, feeling comfortable, happy -- and very, very hard. I was by myself and reached down to start some gentle stroking, not with any intent to bring myself to orgasm but just to enjoy how my penis felt -- its size, its texture, the way it responded and how it made me feel. I wasn't fully awake yet and enjoyed becoming more and more conscious as my penis became more and more the focus of my attention. Without realizing it I happily slipped over the border from just being a guy who's enjoying fingering his penis to being just the life support system for a raging erect penis which is insisting that it be attended to, and attended to now!
I had no problem with that and increased my both my strokes and the degree of firmness of my hold. Then just as I felt the mounting physical inevitability of ejaculation kick in my clock radio alarm went off. Apparently I had set the radio to a classical station and the music which suddenly filled the room was the very end of one of those magnificent 19th century symphonies with the music rising in grandeur to its own inevitable climax. The music continued its progression and then amazingly just after the last long note came along and my penis felt that it was about to explode, the symphony ended in three short staccato notes just as a rapid series of spurts send a load of warm semen onto the orchestra pit of my abodomen!
It was wholly unplanned, wholly unexpected and quite wonderful. That one time only I consider my masturbation to have been a piece of performance art, something truly to be appreciated.
Hope you've enjoyed hearing about my experience -- maybe you've had something similar happen, or maybe you have something like that to look forward to.
Hey, Broman323, good to hear from you and hope you enjoyed my story. And yes, deep sexual urges do seem to come out of nowhere sometimes and that is to be enjoyed. It's great to have a hard-on given to you rather than work at developing one (although there's nothing wrong with that, either)
And yeah, looking at yourself in a full-length mirror while masturbating definitely can increase your pleasure. As you become more stimulated, do you see your nipples start to stand out, and do you see little bumps form all around the edge of the colored circle of the nipple? And do you see little goosebumps form across your pecs as you get more excited? And your muscles tense up as you get closer to cumming? Those are all wonderful things to watch while you get yourself more and more aroused. Our bodies have lots of things to show us if we will but look at them more closely.
Sometimes I'll do a barbell workout at home in front of a mirror to watch my form -- and to watch the muscles flex and show a little more shape than they did a few work-outs ago. And sometimes I can see my penis stiffen up a little during such a work-out, especially when I've thought of winding up by exercising that body part last!
Enjoying yourself and your sexuality is definitely normal! Do continue to enjoy it while seeing if there are new ways and varieties that you can try. Good luck!View Thread
Yeah, there's a lot we don't know about dreams but they sure are interesting. And when you have a dream with strong sexual content and wake up either having a hard-on which must be released immediately or discover that you have already ejaculated there's something I do wonder. And that's has your erotic dream caused you to get to the point of no return with an ejaculation? Or, more likely, I think your body has become pent up sexually and in its relaxed state has started to produce a release of semen while producing a monster hard-on. That fully aroused state I bet has prompted your mind to drag in any old sexual images which may or may not occur to you -- could be a killer babe pleading you to get on top of her or it could be a buddy about to attack your butt, or some mixture of that. Hey, guys, it's all just sex. Wonderful, enriching natural sex. Something to be enjoyed.
In our dreams we frequently mix things up in ways which would never happen in our everyday lives. Why wouldn't dreams prompted by one being asleep but in a high state of arousal bring up all sort of unusual and/or new ideas. I say just enjoy them! And make sure you have some tissues on the night table.View Thread
I don't know, but there was always some reason I never was interested in taking up golf!
And doesn't it seem too bad that exposing one's penis is being done here as a penalty? Better have it as something like a recognition for achievement, being first or something like that. Dicks deserve some respect! (At least I think mine does).View Thread
Tattoos. Something we've never talked about. Do you have one? Do you wish you had one? Do you wish you didn't have one which you do have?
I don't have any and at this point I probably won't. About 20 years ago I came close to having an Indian bear design put on my right bicep -- I thought that would be cool. But somehow the moment passed and it didn't happen.
Sometimes I think that when tattoos began showing up on women they started to lose some of their 'macho luster' for me.
I think this is another issue where there is an age difference. At work another older guy will take the next urinal and start talking with me -- while a younger one who I know much better won't talk at all. And often the younger guys take a stall, hide and pee standing into the toilet. Now that I don't really understand, but I accept that there's more than one way to do things. There are some people who have a nervous inhibition which keeps them from using a urinal at all.View Thread