I have a studly black leather jockstrap I wear for those days when I'm feeling especially butch and want to urge myself to greater achievement! After wearing it a number of times the leather stretches to cup you just right - nothing like it.View Thread
If your penis wants to be hard, it will be hard -- when you're asleep, that is. While we are awake we have been well-conditioned to keep ourselves soft most of the time.
If you go to bed nude I bet your penis will enjoy the freedom and will be hard as you drift off to sleep, when you wake up and a number of times in between. If you don't already sleep nude, give it a try and see how it feels for you. If you are currently a nude sleeper I bet you're hard a lot more often than you may think!View Thread
It's just another form of ejaculation -- but since it happens in your sleep you're not awake to appreicate it. I haven't had one in a long time but back in my teens I'd have one now an then -- usually I had been dreaming that I had been masturbating and woke up to find that my dick was still fairly hard and that I'd just dropped a load of semen.
I too once tried to force a wet dream by not masturbating for a period of time. After three weeks of nothing happening I wenet ahead and whacked off, realizing that all I had accomplished was to miss some good self-pleasure sessions. But that's how we learn things.
And I know that it's natural to want to try to experience everything, but don't feel too bad about not having had a wet dream -- it's not at the top of the list by any means!View Thread
Any of your skin will hurt if it gets sunburned. But I have always included my penis and scrotum when applying suntan lotion when I was at a nude beach and those parts never got a burn. And when sunning while lying on my back I'd even make sure that half the time my penis was pointing up and half the time it was pointing down -- that way both the front and the back got an even tan.View Thread
When I go to bed. And when I get up. When I go for a swim in a pond, a lake, a river, in the ocean. When I'm in the steam room or the sauna When I run along the water's edge at the beach in late afternoon and watch the huge shadow of my penis bob up and down with each step of my run. When I have sex. When I work out in the back yard early in the morning while it's still dark outside. Whenever I can. Whatever it is, it's usually better without clothes.View Thread
Jrocker, thanks for letting me know you enjoyed my story. I appreciate your kind words but even more I appreciate that I helped stiffen you up! That thought is now turning full circle and is now getting me going. Fortunately, there's a men's room down the hall.View Thread
Usually setting a scene for some self-pleasuring doesn't involve including a sound track, even though music is very important in adding emotion. Ever think of what a role it plays in the movies we go to? Sometimes I won't even be aware of the music -- but it's there and it does add to the total experience..
I don't think about including music when I'm scheduling some QPT (Quality Penis Time) -- which is too bad, since it can have an impact. But I do remember one time some years back when music did add to my experience, even though I hadn't planned it.
It was one of those quiet, easy mornings when you wake up slowly, feeling comfortable, happy -- and very, very hard. I was by myself and reached down to start some gentle stroking, not with any intent to bring myself to orgasm but just to enjoy how my penis felt -- its size, its texture, the way it responded and how it made me feel. I wasn't fully awake yet and enjoyed becoming more and more conscious as my penis became more and more the focus of my attention. Without realizing it I happily slipped over the border from just being a guy who's enjoying fingering his penis to being just the life support system for a raging erect penis which is insisting that it be attended to, and attended to now!
I had no problem with that and increased my both my strokes and the degree of firmness of my hold. Then just as I felt the mounting physical inevitability of ejaculation kick in my clock radio alarm went off. Apparently I had set the radio to a classical station and the music which suddenly filled the room was the very end of one of those magnificent 19th century symphonies with the music rising in grandeur to its own inevitable climax. The music continued its progression and then amazingly just after the last long note came along and my penis felt that it was about to explode, the symphony ended in three short staccato notes just as a rapid series of spurts send a load of warm semen onto the orchestra pit of my abodomen!
It was wholly unplanned, wholly unexpected and quite wonderful. That one time only I consider my masturbation to have been a piece of performance art, something truly to be appreciated.
Hope you've enjoyed hearing about my experience -- maybe you've had something similar happen, or maybe you have something like that to look forward to.
Hey, Broman323, good to hear from you and hope you enjoyed my story. And yes, deep sexual urges do seem to come out of nowhere sometimes and that is to be enjoyed. It's great to have a hard-on given to you rather than work at developing one (although there's nothing wrong with that, either)
And yeah, looking at yourself in a full-length mirror while masturbating definitely can increase your pleasure. As you become more stimulated, do you see your nipples start to stand out, and do you see little bumps form all around the edge of the colored circle of the nipple? And do you see little goosebumps form across your pecs as you get more excited? And your muscles tense up as you get closer to cumming? Those are all wonderful things to watch while you get yourself more and more aroused. Our bodies have lots of things to show us if we will but look at them more closely.
Sometimes I'll do a barbell workout at home in front of a mirror to watch my form -- and to watch the muscles flex and show a little more shape than they did a few work-outs ago. And sometimes I can see my penis stiffen up a little during such a work-out, especially when I've thought of winding up by exercising that body part last!
Enjoying yourself and your sexuality is definitely normal! Do continue to enjoy it while seeing if there are new ways and varieties that you can try. Good luck!View Thread
Yeah, there's a lot we don't know about dreams but they sure are interesting. And when you have a dream with strong sexual content and wake up either having a hard-on which must be released immediately or discover that you have already ejaculated there's something I do wonder. And that's has your erotic dream caused you to get to the point of no return with an ejaculation? Or, more likely, I think your body has become pent up sexually and in its relaxed state has started to produce a release of semen while producing a monster hard-on. That fully aroused state I bet has prompted your mind to drag in any old sexual images which may or may not occur to you -- could be a killer babe pleading you to get on top of her or it could be a buddy about to attack your butt, or some mixture of that. Hey, guys, it's all just sex. Wonderful, enriching natural sex. Something to be enjoyed.
In our dreams we frequently mix things up in ways which would never happen in our everyday lives. Why wouldn't dreams prompted by one being asleep but in a high state of arousal bring up all sort of unusual and/or new ideas. I say just enjoy them! And make sure you have some tissues on the night table.View Thread