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gymrat44

Joined: 03/15/2011
My Story:
In my 60s, bought my first barbell in high school 50 years ago and still work out four or five times a week. Getting to know and enjoy my body has included shining the flashilight into all corners of my sexualtiy and learning to enjoy that as well. A really good workout can be as good as sex; and great sex can be quite a workout!

I believe we are all potentially bisexual and over time develop ourselves at a particular point on the same-sex to opposite-sex continuum. Once we accept where we are and have come to terms with that we can be at peace and come to terms with others wherever they may be. I consider myself "straight" but realize that that's only part of who I am.

Have been married to two wonderful yet very different women and have learned much from them.

For one-on-one conversation my e-mail is: thegymrat44@aol.com

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Reply: Peeing with a friend
I think this is another issue where there is an age difference. At work another older guy...More
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Reply: Shaving below the belt line
Twice a week keeps the area nicely smooth and looking well cared for. It's fun to do and...More
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For discussion: full masculinity cannot be achiev...
There is something special, a shared understanding and vulnerability which comes from...More
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What do you think?
  • Sharing with another guy has brought me full masculinity..
  • I've done it but it's just part of how I got to where I am now.
  • Haven't done it, would like to and see how it would be fulfilling
  • Feel fully masculine without having shared masturbation.
  • I'm fully masculine without ever having beat off with another guy
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Reply: shorts or pj's
I'm always a nude sleeper. And yes, I do get awakened in an aroused state, too. But hey,...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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Reply: Male masturbation
Hey, zoom, your story about getting yourself going while brushing your teeth reminded me...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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Reply: my erection
I'd say that's great -- and wouldn't mind having a look. I do hope you do more than walk...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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Reply: Help a buddy out
Yeah, this is a good topic but the newest post had been done two years go. Isn't it great...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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Reply: Help a buddy out
Choice 1 (masturbate with/next to him). Of course regular readers of this board already...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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Reply: Going Solo
Porn can have its place. I usually prefer to have masturbation being just with me and my...More
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
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