I think this is another issue where there is an age difference. At work another older guy will take the next urinal and start talking with me -- while a younger one who I know much better won't talk at all. And often the younger guys take a stall, hide and pee standing into the toilet. Now that I don't really understand, but I accept that there's more than one way to do things. There are some people who have a nervous inhibition which keeps them from using a urinal at all.View Thread
There is something special, a shared understanding and vulnerability which comes from stroking yourself to ejaculation while you are together with another guy who is doing the same thing. You need not touch each other, you may not know each other but by creating a shared joyful celebration of your manhood you become a part of a great brotherhood which has achieved full masculinity. And even if all of your sexual activites are with members of the opposite sex you will not know or experience your full masculine potential until you have experienced the electric energy and great peacefulness which comes by masturbating with a brother.View Thread
I'm always a nude sleeper. And yes, I do get awakened in an aroused state, too. But hey, what's wrong with that? Even though I have a tight schedule and can't affort to be missing sleep I find that if I keep the little guy regularly drained some simple stroking and attention can be a wonderful way to get back to sleep. Does anything like that work for you?
As a rule I'd say if something gets you aroused it's to be enjoyed, not avoided! What do you other guys say?View Thread
Hey, zoom, your story about getting yourself going while brushing your teeth reminded me of something I'd forgotten. Years ago I was both busy and horny one morning, wash in a rush to get myself together and get out but at the same time had a strong need to masturbate as well. But there just wasn't time for even a quickie jerk-off!
But I got an idea about my electric toothbrush. I turned it on and put the vibrating end under my erect penis which was sticking out over the sink counter. So I happily shaved and combed my hair while the toothbrush masturbated me. Just as I was about done with the hair and shaving the needed ejaculation popped out into the wash basin. Not the best self-gratification in the world but I got the itch scratched and was able to leave the house on time!
Thanks for reminding me of an odd episode which has slipped my mind.View Thread
Yeah, this is a good topic but the newest post had been done two years go. Isn't it great how we have grown past who we were and have become who we really are! And making this a shared journey with guys on this site continues to be tremendous.View Thread
Porn can have its place. I usually prefer to have masturbation being just with me and my imagination, as you say. I go to porn to get new ideas, to be surprised by something I hadn't thought of; to see something I probably wouldn't do myself. Sometimes it can be really stimulating so I get ahold of myself and have a good time -- what's the point in waiting? But usually if I view porn it's only to warm myself up or get myself in a randier mood. Usually I'm disappointed by what has been put together by someone else and as you say, I can come up with something myself which gets me aroused going better!View Thread