My wife gave me a treadmill for our previous anniversary and I have run into a lil problem with the type of undies to wear when walking at a fast pace. No matter what I wear, I end up with some type of chaffing. I've tried briefs, boxer briefs, jocks, thongs, g-strings, and have even tried wearing no undies at all (big mistake). The place where it chafes varies depending on the type of undies I wear. The jock was the most comfortable but the straps left chaffing just outside the gooch area. I'm on the treadmill for a solid 90 minutes per session, so I'm not sure if it's the length of time or not. I don't notice the chaffing until after I take a shower, otherwise I'd stop when it starts to irritate. Anyone have any advice?View Thread
Glad ya liked how it turned out! I'm still using the beard & mustache coloring gel with no adverse reactions.
I contacted the company a while back and asked for any info they could provide on it's use on pubes. They responded by saying that they couldn't say either way because they haven't done any testing for that application but that they don't see why it wouldn't work with similar results.View Thread
I bought the Aneros a few years ago and it was ok. It was initially very stimulating but wanted to give something else a try. On the advice of a bud, I tried the "Rocks Off Cheeky-Boy" anal masager and WOW. The shape is perfect, the vibrations are intense, it stays in by itself without any assistance or slipping, and is incredible when you eventually get off. It is shaped so that once in place, the handle rests against your perineum and your balls lay on the end, stimulating both areas with amazing vibrations. Amazon sells it for a decent price.View Thread
I have no prob taking a leak with my wife in the bathroom with me, that's been the case since she moved in when we were dating. It's not a shy bladder thing either since I'll go out in the back yard when I take the dog out and piss in the grass with him. More so, it's just that I wasn't trained that way by my Dad so it's a little different in my mindset.
I've never seen my Dad nor my brother naked, dunno if that's just the way things were or what. I have no prob being naked or being seen/watched by others. I usually end up skinny dipping with friends when we go over for a cookout. My son regularly see's me naked when I'm changing or taking a shower, so I'm not shy about it. The doc said he won't be "bothered" by it until about 4 or 5 when if he see's me he'll go running out of the room saying "ewww Dad's naked!"View Thread
My wife keeps telling me that I'm going to have to show our son at some point. He just turned 1 so it's not really time to teach now but I get weirded out when the dog comes in the bathroom to watch me take a leak and just stares at me.View Thread
I think that individual perception has a lot to do with classifying it as cheating or not. Other influences such as culture and religion can play a big part as well but individual perception is what gets us through each day; what the world is and means to us, individually. Buddy might not view it as cheating and he probably doesn't considering that wasn't even mentioned in his initial post.
I'm married and since we got in a committed relationship to one another I swore off women. I will never touch or be with another woman in the way that I do with my wife. To me that would be cheating and our culture agrees with that generalization. I masturbate and occasionally check out porn but I don't view that as cheating, nor does my wife. However some women that my wife posts with, view solo masturbation and looking at porn as cheating or being not true. Personally I view Buddy's exploration as an extension of the masturbation field, just with a friend. He doesn't want to start a romantic relationship with his friend or change anything about his marriage and he's still committed to his wife & relationship with her.
You might play devil's advocate and say what if the shoe were on the other foot, would you still feel the same? To that I'd say that if I found out that my wife and her best female friend were exploring sexually with one another, I still wouldn't view that as her cheating on me. I wouldn't view that as endangering our relationship or her commitment to me and our marriage. I would have issues if she were playing more with her friend than her and I. But an isolated incident or infrequent events wouldn't cause me any reason for concern.View Thread
Primarily, I've used Yahoo instant messenger and their chat rooms. A while ago I used to cam on a website (adult friend finder) that had multiple cam sessions going and you could start your own and be an exhibitionist, join in with someone already camming, or just be a voyeur to someone else who was streaming. They had singles, couples, multiples, sr8, bi, gay... you name it.View Thread
I'm right there with you on the exhibitionist thing. My one bud had an inground pool and he has gatherings with close friends and I'm usually one of the first ones to ditch the trunks. I've been to some secluded spots at a local reservoir that's healivy wooded and gone skinny dippin' a few times when I knew I was being watched by a few others. I've also done the webcam thing, it's exhilerating to be watched by complete strangers. Other than that I'm pretty much in leagues with you for the locker room/steam/sauna and around the house.View Thread