before the night sweats and menopause I preferred to sleep unclad and was very comfortable that way,however with the onset of menopause and terrible night sweats I have found that cotton nighties are very absorbent.I can change cotton nighties and not have to change the sheets in the middle of the night.Just an aside: Victoria's Secret and other lingerie departments carry cotton nighties that are still appealing and enticing to both you and your mate.View Thread