Denise I am 54 and was in the exact spot you are in. I couldn't stand myself. I have been on the Amor Vie implant for a little over a year. It has changed my life. My personality is back like it was in my early 30's. I have energy, and I actually like people again. I want sex again, my headaches and body aches are gone. I no longer have any hot flashes or night sweats. I tried a lot of over the counter stuff and they did not work. The implant worked within 4 days. My husband isn't afraid of me anymore, and says he will pick up cans if he has to, so I can get my implant. hahaha. Try it. If you don't like it quit. Good Luck, hope this helpsView Thread