Since you are already seeing a urologist, have your blood tested for testosterone levels. I did and found that my level was at 140 which is super low. If your body doesn't make enough "T" the fat goes to the gut. My urologist wants to get my level up to 500 so I get a weekly "T" injection. Stats show that if you lose 35 pounds of weight your penis will gain an inch in lenghth. since my level has been regulated, I have started losing weight (plus I work out 3 days a week at the gym). Get your thyroid checked too. I started taking an iodine suppliment that may have helped with the weight loss. Also magnesium helps restart the fat burning process. I'm no doctor but this is working for me!View Thread