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Sometimes I experience what you describe, only I wouldn't say I feel like I'm ejaculating. However, the sudden lengthening and hardening movement of my cock does let me know that some ejaculation would be appreciated. This feeling especially happens when I'm dressed, seated and doing something else. I feel my penis start to grow and push against the constraints of my undershorts and, if possible, to start going down one of my pant legs.
Just a week or so that happened, seemingly out of nowhere. It let me know it was time to get up, find a washroom and get some release. I was glad to accommodate and look forward to the next time!View Thread
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Second -- and this is the more difficult bit -- you need to come clean with your wife about what you did. Yes, there is a chance that it could ruin your marriage, but that's no one's fault but your own, and you owe it to her to be honest. The longer you live in this lie, the more it's going to poison your relationship, regardless of whether or not you realize it is happening.
If you're having urges beyond your wife -- and I don't mean the usual sort of lustful fantasies, but the sort that you feel compelled to act on -- then it's just possible your wife doesn't mean as much to you as you think she does. That's something you need to figure out, because if you continue to cheat on her then you're clearly not devoted in matrimony and maybe you should put an end to the marriage.
Whatever you decide, good luck. But remember this: those indiscretions will catch up with you sooner or later, and one or both of you is going to get hurt.View Thread
First, some background: I'm a 30 year old male suffering from lower spinal damage. It's pretty serious. The doctors want to operate, but there are other health issues I need to get sorted out first.
Recently, I've been feeling a lot of pressure around the anus area. Whenever I stand up I feel like I have to defecate even if I have already done so. It's like there's something inside my rectum pushing to get out. It's an extremely uncomfortable feeling, and it makes physical therapy really difficult.
This leads to the sexual problem I'm having: for the last month and a half, I've been unable to reach orgasm. For a while I put this down to the fact that I was briefly on Zoloft, which I hear can cause difficulty ejaculating. However, I've been off the Zoloft for a while and I still can't orgasm.
I've noticed that whenever I masturbate, I begin to feel that same weighty tension in the rectum/anus area that I feel while I'm standing. Up until recently, I've never noticed that before. The closer I get to orgasm, the more uncomfortable the feeling becomes. It 's like this pressure has something to do with my inability to orgasm, and usually I just give up in frustration.
The last time I attempted to masturbate, however, I managed to reach climax. I could feel the sensation approaching regardless of the uncomfortable tightness in my rectum/anus, and when the orgasm finally hit... nothing happened. No semen at all. It's like it built up to the moment as us ysyak and then it was simply over. It felt like I had a really meager orgasm with none of the usual release (physical or mental).
This is very frustrating and a little concerning. I tried speaking to my neurosurgeon about it because I thought it might have something to do with nerve damage, and he assumed it probably did, but now I'm not so sure. My back has been injured since 2004 and I've never had this problem prior to about a month ago.
I'm beginning to worry there might be something going on with my prostate, but I'm only 30. I feel like I'm too young for prostate problems.
Has anyone else experienced this, or could someone shed some light on what might be going on?View Thread
To add, I am still a virgin to this day. Even when there were chances for me to engage in sex, I could not due to being overly nervous or apprehensive, or suspicious. Celibacy isn't a choice I made, but a consequence of ongoing rejection and limited ability to shrug it off without going through a period of social withdrawal. So along with what I had mentioned, there are many social and psychological factors that are involved.
I hope to meet with a sex therapist to address every aspect of all of my sexual dysfunctions. However, in lies another problem. Sex therapists are just too difficult to afford when one is on disability and Medicare. If all else, do major colleges and universities have sex therapy clinics for people in my situation?
I'm desperate for a starting point because this problem has caused me to loose all self confidence in trying again to date. I'm afraid that I'll just continue to disappoint any woman who meets me, as I feel I always do.View Thread
You should have done in the survey format question.
I have found it is not the size of the dick. But the size or shape of the man's body. When he has ed or bp issue.
Also a male with a huge dick will have more issue with ed if he has high bp.View Thread
It sounds like you are in the same place I was over a year ago. I was started on the 50mg Zoloft for depression & anxiety. Within a couple of days I was experiencing the same side effects as you. The side effects worsened over the next couple of weeks to where I was unable to orgasm at all. I notified my Dr and he started to wean me off of Zoloft at 25mg for the next few days. At that point I started taking Wellbutrin SR 150mg twice a day. It was the magic bullet for me!! My sex drive increased and orgasms returned within a couple of days of starting it. Now my libido is definitely higher and orgasms are more intense and as long lasting as when I was in my youth.
Good luck.View Thread
I got one about six months ago and really like it!View Thread
Hoping things are continuing to go well!View Thread
Do you not know the percentage of std in the USA. Also the number of people that do not have the money for medical care.
I would first stick my penis in a bee's nest. But it's your LIFE>View Thread
As I described a while back in another post the abdominal muscular contraction done as part of a regular bench press has enough similarity to that done in regular humping that it can cause an ejaculation. Once early one morning I was waiting for my hard-on to subside so I could pee and to pass the time went into the next room to pump out some bench presses. I was surprised that after about five presses a load of semen came flying out onto my abdomen! Yes, I was hard, but I certainly wasn't expecting that result.
So, jrocker, next time I have a "ballbuster" of a workout I'll stop in the can afterwards, give myself a squeeze and see what happens. Always great learning new things about your body and what it can do.View Thread
I have read a bunch about it on longivity sites and there is no reason not to take it daily for rest of my life. This string also winds back the clock to reduce natural abdominal fat build up. Which it has. Since for it to be effective it is best to not have eaten for three hours prior to injections I stopped eating 3 hours before sleep so that when out body goes into its natureal sleep time repair with no food and an empty stomach it when it uses that stored abdominal fat. Plus it increases the quality of deeper sleep.
Just wanted you to know I am not doing the tessView Thread
I'm thinking that these diagnoses of "low T" are just a smokescreen to prescribe expensive testosterone replacement therapy, which is like crack because you will be on it for the rest of your life after your body quits making it naturally. I don't see how that is a good thing?View Thread
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