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What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.

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Erectile Movement

Whenever my penis hardens at times, there is this feeling that it seems like it is ejaculating - like it...

Posted by An_249654

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Whenever my penis hardens at times, there is this feeling that it seems like it is ejaculating - like it pushes and moves on its own. Is that normal? Does anybody else feel the same thing I feel?

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Sex after radical prostectamy

I had a Radical prostatectomy in June of 2012, my Doctor put me on CIALIS, the daily version in January of this...

Posted by Bigbenn

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Concerning developes regarding orgasm.

I've looked for info regarding this problem online, but I can't seem to find anything, so I thought I'd ask...

Posted by DyedTime

I've looked for info regarding this problem online, but I can't seem to find anything, so I thought I'd ask here.

First, some background: I'm a 30 year old male suffering from lower spinal damage. It's pretty serious. The doctors want to operate, but there are other health issues I need to get sorted out first.

Recently, I've been feeling a lot of pressure around the anus area. Whenever I stand up I feel like I have to defecate even if I have already done so. It's like there's something inside my rectum pushing to get out. It's an extremely uncomfortable feeling, and it makes physical therapy really difficult.

This leads to the sexual problem I'm having: for the last month and a half, I've been unable to reach orgasm. For a while I put this down to the fact that I was briefly on Zoloft, which I hear can cause difficulty ejaculating. However, I've been off the Zoloft for a while and I still can't orgasm.

I've noticed that whenever I masturbate, I begin to feel that same weighty tension in the rectum/anus area that I feel while I'm standing. Up until recently, I've never noticed that before. The closer I get to orgasm, the more uncomfortable the feeling becomes. It 's like this pressure has something to do with my inability to orgasm, and usually I just give up in frustration.

The last time I attempted to masturbate, however, I managed to reach climax. I could feel the sensation approaching regardless of the uncomfortable tightness in my rectum/anus, and when the orgasm finally hit... nothing happened. No semen at all. It's like it built up to the moment as us ysyak and then it was simply over. It felt like I had a really meager orgasm with none of the usual release (physical or mental).

This is very frustrating and a little concerning. I tried speaking to my neurosurgeon about it because I thought it might have something to do with nerve damage, and he assumed it probably did, but now I'm not so sure. My back has been injured since 2004 and I've never had this problem prior to about a month ago.

I'm beginning to worry there might be something going on with my prostate, but I'm only 30. I feel like I'm too young for prostate problems.

Has anyone else experienced this, or could someone shed some light on what might be going on?View Thread

Posted by DyedTime

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Where and How To Address Getting None

I am 50 years of age. I have survived a series of chronic conditions over the past 12 years. Between these...

Posted by An_252142

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A Survey on penis type & ED/High Blood Pressure

Ok so I understand that there are two types of a penis. 1) The type that is quite small when flaccid but...

Posted by Anon_2000

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This is a test survey

I was wondering if .....

Posted by abe648

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Not so close shave?

I posted the following on the Man to Man Topics board. Unfortunately, the day/time counter did not work and...

Posted by Anon_1131

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anti depressants and orgasm

Hi men, After much self exploration and finally admitting I needed to do something, I started Zoloft 50mg. ...

Posted by An_251175

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Married and struggling with my urges

First of all, I stumbled across this forum by chance and am glad to see a lot of useful discussion and...

Posted by VicZ32

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in my hairy phase

Hey men, Here lately I just love being hairy and it really seams to be in style right now too... I think its...

Posted by An_251175

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Penis pimple

I have a single red pimple on my penis, it seems to have pus in it, should i see a doctor, or just pop it? It's...

Posted by Borbo

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Stranger danger! Do you or don't you?

OK guys, I really want to know eeryone's opinion and experiences on this. Do you trust a stranger to suck...

Posted by An_251175

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Freeballing

Hey guys. I recently started freeballing at the gym and some days at work. I love the feeling. Initially had to...

Posted by Triguy

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pierced?

I've always fantasized about getting a prince albert. I've got a good looking too with a nice head, so I'd...

Posted by An_251175

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Cockrings and Erectile Disfunction:

Hello Good People: Please I'll like to know the reality of cockrings being useful for holding onto...

Posted by An_251580

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Does anyone have experience using HGH injections

I have got this thing going that I want to put on more new upper and lower body muscle. 10- 15 pounds. I...

Posted by SeattleRon

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Does anyone have experience using HGH injections

I have got this thing going that I want to put on more new upper and lower body muscle. 10- 15 pounds. I...

Posted by SeattleRon

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leaking pre-cum

hi men, at 37, I'm finding myself precumming earlier now. When jerking or with my partner I used to not...

Posted by An_251175

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need the guidance

I am a married man. i haven't made intercourse since last three monhs. My wife is having doubt on my...

Posted by hindusthani

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Serious Medical Ano-Rectal Issue

To begin, I feel like stating I have no health insurance, and have sought medical treatment without it and...

Posted by An_251288

To begin, I feel like stating I have no health insurance, and have sought medical treatment without it and after the 1st few thousand dollars I gave up. Now I'm desperate and don't know what to do, so allow me to explain.

I think I've injured my anus and possibly by having too much anal sex over the years. I'm only 23. I've been doin it since I was 14 and was typically a bottom until I started showing the first signs of my current symptoms around 19. The shame and guilt kept me from telling anyone or seeking medical attention for years. The first doctor I was referred to gave me a look of shock and simultaneous condemnation when I told her my story. She did no examination but did schedule an expensive colonoscopy. I was able to keep face until I got to my car after that appointment and then broke down crying. I switched to another doctor in the same practice to follow through with the colonoscopy. Ultimately it was inconclusive, excepting a hemroid diagnosis. He prescribed me a hydrocortisone enema as a two week treatment. It was expensive and didn't work. I still suffer from the following symptoms, part of my rectum seems to protrude from my anus during bowl movements and sex (the doctors entertained this but didnt believe it, didnt examine it, and didnt treat it), The sphincter itself seems loose even though at this time I haven't bottomed in years (no issues with incontinence), I have hemroids (the least of my worries) but there's also like a growth or something non-hemroidy tacked on the outside that I guess the doctor's just ignored when they did the colonoscopy.

In my day-to-day life I've learned to live with it, but when it comes to sex I suffer, because I can't bottom and even if I'm not bottoming it's the constant anxiety of "OMG, what if he sees my ass?"... That's not the sex life I want. My family doesn't get this, doctors dont get it, and im deathly afraid to tell any gay friends because well... go figure.
I feel broken and unfixable very often and it's a point of despair in my life. Thankfully I'm not clinically depressed. Really I just want to be your normal 23 year old and have sex with guys and not worry about any a**hole issues whatsoever, I want a normal butthole. I dont know if I'm actually broken because I made a few mistakes as a teenager. I've been fisted a few times in the distant past and think that's related to the symptoms of course. I was in a very intense meth-fueled relationship a matter of years ago and the intense sex seemed to add to the damage of course.
So basically I think I have a rectal prolapse along with anal symptoms that I have no reference for even with all the years of googling and WebMDing imaginable; not to mention the issue with the loose sphincter. I'm fishing for some hope anonymously on the internet because I don't know what to do where to go or who to talk to. I've also been looking at toys online and there are these things called ass tunnels that i found on forttroff.com and they seem like theyd be a temporary fix with the sphincter and prolapse issue but I still need the damn hemroids gone. And ultimately I want to be fixed cuz 30 years from now untreated itll only be worse and i dont wanna be a boring old celibate gay man =\ so enough confusion, can anyone help?View Thread

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my ..... always get erect when i am with my girlf...

please tell me the way that i could not suffer from the problem of my ... anus erection while sitting with my...

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I'm wondering what's next

I have a friend who, when we get together, often jerk together. We have off and on for years. Sometimes we do...

Posted by An_251175

I have a friend who, when we get together, often jerk together. We have off and on for years. Sometimes we do it without even talking about it... just start jerking. no big deal.

Last evening I went over to his new place to help him move some furniture late in the evening. He invited me to get in the hottub after we were finished with a beer. I said I didn't have a suit and he said, no worries, it's dark and the neighbors can't see.
We went out back, stripped on the sunporch, and got in. We talked about the usual and he talked about how it was his new favorite place to relieve himself. I said that I could really empty out also, so we both began to jerk ourselves. I started talking about how all the jets hitting all over my body actually kinda made it harder to concentrate on my rod, he turned off the jets, slid over and said he knew what would help.

He quickly poked at and started rubbing my hole and worked a finger in some. It was a little rough at first, but I let him. I think I was a little shocked and turned on at the same time.
He got a finger in and said that a little prostate massage would do the trick. It was amazing. I came in no time and it felt so powerful, much more powerful than when i do it on my own.
After I milked myself out and recovered, he said that it was my turn to do his. So I did. He wiggled and moaned and was very verbal in telling me how hard to finger him. After he shot his load and leaned back for a while, we went right back to talking about other things.
When we were done, he jumped out and got me a towel from the porch. We went inside only wrapped and even walked and sat at his barstools naked afterwards, but it wasn't mentioned any more.
What should I say? Does this mean he wants to go further with me or just wait and see if he wants to finger me again?
I don't even know what I would want to do beacuase I really don't have many buddy/friends/guys who I hang out with.
JaseView Thread

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Would You tell her????

This weekend when with a friend to a meet and greet party. I saw an old girlfriend there. To be nice I asked her...

Sex is the prime motivating factor in any male's life. Like oxygen, it's only important if you're not getting any.

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shooter or oozer

Ok, it seams like every porno has some guy absolutely shooting his load like a cannon. This hardly ever...

Posted by sandalman

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ED?

In general, at appx what age is it more common for a mans libido for his partner to begin to decline and then...

Posted by An_250877

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Circumcision

I just turned 20... Im "cut", but I've been interested in getting my foreskin back. I've heard of many...

Posted by CousinCarl99

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Intriguing shapes of the penis

I have on occasions watch guys jo in bathrooms, trains, theater and their car. I find the shapes of the glans...

Posted by zitper

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Why am I so mesmerized by a man's penis that it turns into a sexual desire.

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