I hope your son does it, especially since it is for a good purpose and that he needs the money. It's crazy that women like one of Tiger Wood's mistresses gets a ton of money to not talk about the affair and then it all comes out anyway, but she still made money essentially just from her body. Some of these women will pose for nude spreads in magazines etc. and again make a lot of money. Whether they approve or disapprove, nobody thinks this is abnormal in any way, because we are so used to women who need or want some money making it from posing and using their bodies. I think it is great and only fair men have the same opportunities again now, (male nude modeling actually has a more common and longer tradition historically).
So like I already said, I I hope your son does it, especially since it is for a good purpose and that he needs the money. It may be easier for him to watch you do one or to do one with you and/or you and your friend first. I know for me it is always easier to do something new first with a close friend I am comfortable with or an older family member who already has experience with it. It always nice I guess to be shown the ropes as they say of something new first, and 'telling is not teaching", you can be told oh it's okay if you get an erection, but still be nervous about it, but if you see it happen and see it really is okay that is experiential learning which really does help ease you about unnecessary fears and concerns. Similarly I have heard that many sons feel weird about having so many erections growing up, even if a Dad tells them it is normal etc., but if you see them happening to others than you really do relax more about your own and feel more comfortable with and about your own. It sounds like you already did that for your son growing up, which is awesome, and would be cool to now be able to pose with him and kind of do the same thing, with the added benefit to the artist and those seeing it, as well as some more money you will both make.View Thread
So I could see him naked in locker room, at the urinal next to me in almost nay public restroom, but when staying over at his own house no way. To me that still seems more than silly. Well, I am still very glad my friends Dad didn't change anything he did in his own home at night just because I was there. It wasn't like I was over for the first time in the middle of the day without my Mom's permission. I was staying in his house and they made me feel welcome by just being themselves while I was there and it taught me a lot about not being so uptight and I'm glad.View Thread
Yes, let's inch ever closer toward radical Islamic laws. Cover up head to toe in front of others or be stoned. There are no laws about just being naked in one's own house and bathroom with members of the same gender of any age, not in locker rooms, change rooms, etc. either yet thank goodness. At least not in the still somewhat sane free country I live in, thank goodness!View Thread
Exactly! This was cool for me to see and helped me in my own comfort, I am glad I got to see this so I learned that nudity when everyone has the same parts did not have to be a scary thing, or that I had to be ashamed just cause I was smaller at the time. Some boys I went to school with failed gym cause they didn't want to change even. MOST kids will NEVER be hurt by nudity, MOST priests (and I am Catholic) do NOT molest, don't throw the baby out with the bath water. I heard of kids that die in cars when parents car pool, should this mean no kids should ever be in cars. Gimme a break, yes a minority or kids are hurt once in a while in life, people are also struck by lightning, but that doesn't mean that all boys should grow up never changing at a gym cause things have gotten so crazy out of fear. I am so glad for my friend's Dad, and Manjock's Dad, and Contemplating's Dad who did/do not let fear rule them in their house, or locker rooms, change room, bathroom, showers, pool house, etc. no matter what the age as long as it is same gender this is a healthy attitude to have.View Thread
Well said. It's funny tow friends of mine completely different households in two weeks once. The first house I slept over my friends house and never saw his Dad anything but dressed my friend wore pjs to bed and everyone was really formal and to be honest a bit uptight, no one really had any fun. I wonder what the point of having a sleep over was since the whole house seemed to not be any fun in a lot of ways. Then I noticed that this friend didn't play much sports at school, seemed to not participate in any of the fun or joking around or comfort some of us guys had in gym class and the locker rooms etc.
The next week I was invited to sleep over at different friends house, saw him and his Dad in underwear at night just hanging out and all just hanging out very naturally and comfortably, a lot of laughing, running around, light rough housing with each other; his Dad even moved the Xbox to my friends room for us to play late at night that night if we wanted and he even played a few with us, We all shared the bathroom in the morning; showering, peeing, brushing teeth, etc. etc.; so at various points saw both my friend and his Dad naked and they saw me too; everything very natural and relaxed and a really positive energy and atmosphere to be around, I couldn't wait to hang with them more at their house again. This friend I noticed too was more involved in stuff at school and was really relaxed and fun with us guys in gym class and locker rooms etc. too.View Thread