Kahnjoe, I think this is a very common thing. The vast majority of guys have had sexual experience with other men of some kind. I don't think it defines you as being in one camp ore the other. I was married for 20 years. My sex life with my wife had peaks and valleys. We had experimented with another man together on a few occasions and found that this helped improve our sex life even when it was just the two of us. I began to experiment on my own with other men, and unfortunately, did not discuss this with her and she found out. I think most people find people of the same arousing. Watching two people have sex can be very erotic. As well as watching masterbation, of either gender. I think you are a normal guy who has had the same experiences many men have. Don't screw up a good thing be faithful to your wife and if you are comfortable share with her. Feel free to contact me if you have any other questions.View Thread
I'm not well endowed but average with nice big nuts. I have become more comfortable over the years and enjoy places where nudity is appropriate, locker room, showers, sauna etc. The human body is a beautiful thing. I enjoy checking out other bodies men and women an get turned on when I'm being checked out too. It's great incentive to stay fit and take care of my body.View Thread
What had always been "experimentaion" with men turned into a relationship with another guy. Someone I met on line and hooked up with for mutual release has turned into a relationship. It was not my intent nor did I feel it was even a possiblity but here I am. I have real feelings for this guy and my wife has recently found out. While she want to seperate I don't want to end our marriage and certainly don't want this to impact our children. I have ended the sexual part of my relationship with my lover but we still keep in touch. He is very supportive of my desire to maintain my family I was wondering if anyone out there who has been through this. Any insight would be helpful.View Thread
I recently started going to a new massage therapist. I was undrapped and he remained clothed during the massage. I didn't avoid areas like my glutes and even ran his finger over my hold a couple of times without pressue. The back of his hand touched my balls when he was working my innter tights and he "rearragned" my semi-erect penis one time. It was awesome and I was completly comfortable ... boundaries were respected and I got a very good full body massage. It was great and not just paying someone for a hand job type "massage" deal (I've done that before too) Afterward we talked about a 120 minute massage with Tahi stretching with the massage. He said he has to get up on the table with me for that ... now I can't wait for that experience. Did I mention that he was totally built jock and very handsome......View Thread
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