There are a number of different ways that a penis starts to harden and it can be fascinating to experience it, try to describe it and understand it. And respond to it as needed.
Sometimes I experience what you describe, only I wouldn't say I feel like I'm ejaculating. However, the sudden lengthening and hardening movement of my cock does let me know that some ejaculation would be appreciated. This feeling especially happens when I'm dressed, seated and doing something else. I feel my penis start to grow and push against the constraints of my undershorts and, if possible, to start going down one of my pant legs.
Just a week or so that happened, seemingly out of nowhere. It let me know it was time to get up, find a washroom and get some release. I was glad to accommodate and look forward to the next time!View Thread
Sure - get yourself an iStubble electric clipper. It's cordless and has settings from 0.4 cm up to 5.0 cm which can be changed like using a TV remote. You can find the exact length of scruff which is perfect for you and by using the iStubble daily you can keep it indefinitely.
I got one about six months ago and really like it!View Thread
I join gq12 in encouraging you to give us an update of your experiences with your friend. Your detailed description of the progress of your closeness shows how some give-and-take is required in a good relationship. And a developing a good relationship can take some work, being sure that you both treat each other with respect.
Never noticed that about leaking fluid after a strenuous work-out, although I can see it could happen.
As I described a while back in another post the abdominal muscular contraction done as part of a regular bench press has enough similarity to that done in regular humping that it can cause an ejaculation. Once early one morning I was waiting for my hard-on to subside so I could pee and to pass the time went into the next room to pump out some bench presses. I was surprised that after about five presses a load of semen came flying out onto my abdomen! Yes, I was hard, but I certainly wasn't expecting that result.
So, jrocker, next time I have a "ballbuster" of a workout I'll stop in the can afterwards, give myself a squeeze and see what happens. Always great learning new things about your body and what it can do.View Thread
Hey, glad to hear how things progressed for you! As I was saying before, you two have an ongoing trusting relationship which has had its sexual side for some time. Taking things one step at a time, respecting each other and exploring what you can do together to bring each other pleasure sounds like a good way to go. Or, sorry, should I say come.
Sounds like you guys had a good time! You've said that you have been jerking together on and off for years so I would think that there is a good deal of trust built up between you two. And it does sound like you have a lasting relationship built on things beyond sexual activities.
A change of scene and bringing in a new activity could be something exciting, and yes, it could lead to something else, or more of the same -- or, maybe, it was just a one time thing. How would you like things to develop? I think you're in a situation where you might be able to talk with him about it -- or just let things happen as time goes along. Sounds like just letting things happen has worked out pretty well in this case. Good luck!View Thread
I think we can all shoot, ooze or dribble somewhere in between, all depending on how we're feeling and how we're masturbating at any particular time.
Sometimes in the shower I may have some residue of morning wood which only seems to be encouraged to grow when I wash my penis. Some days when I'm in a hurry I think of that as a 'nuisance erection' -- it needs attention but I really don't have time to get into it. I'll pump it with one hand while I continue washing another body part with the other (not a bad technique, really) and once penis has been adequately stimulated there will be some ooze as the manly cycle completes. Sometimes you just owe it one.
Then there are those times when you choose to put the major part of an evening into self-fulfillment. I've been known to take several hours when I know I'll be alone to relax fully by shutting myself away where I can't be heard. After a good hot whirlpool I'll take my damp, nude self to my bed and lie on my back, get some lube and start gently stroking. Again I'll follow the one-hand technique: when masturbating only touch your penis with one hand at a time. With the other, caress a body part. When your penis gets hard, try to find another body part which is hard. Rub them both, see if one feels harder, and how the hardness feels different. And if you shave your cock regularly, then feel the smoothness of your cock's skin with one hand while you find another smooth, hairless place and see how smooth both of them are. As one hand starts to feel some precum, start licking your other hand -- see how different the two moistures feel. Relax, enjoy all the sensations. Feel the hightened tensions grow in your loins and as you start to feel some tightening in that area, back off and relax a little. Enjoy 'edging' and encounter the delight of having the relaxation of orgasm sweep over you as your dick remains hard without yet having ejaculated.
Continue the session some more, being sure to add some more lube as you progress. You'll be glad you shut the windows since in your relaxed state you may find yourself making some happy moans and groans -- sounds probably best kept to yourself. Enjoy feeling your hair, your muscles contract and relax; switch hands and see if sometimes you can get your penis "confused" by its being caressed by another hand. As time passes and your tension grows your muscles will tighten up all over your body. You may find your hips lifting up off the mattress and starting to make those thrusting moves we seem to come hard-wired with. Your moans may become louder, almost turning into shouts as you feel the point of no return coming. At that point two hands is OK -- and you may have become so big and hard and firm that it will take both hands to grab your penis, one at the base and one next to it at the top. Holding loosely and moving quickly you're about to ejaculate -- and when you do, that's when you will truly shoot. That's the time when I have gotten semen all over my face and into my hair, with a trail going down to my chest. Then it's a great time just to let all your muscles relax as you have no fire left in you and gently drift off into a sound sleep.
And you can always clean up in the morning.
Ooze or squirt, they're both great, both to be appreciated in their own place.View Thread
Since we're all different these things can happen at different times in our lives. It could be situational (fatigue, stress, anxiety) or it could be the sign of a medical issue. Could be a good idea to get yourself checked out by a doctor to be sure it's not a sign of anything else.View Thread
Guess I'd better have more care and humility on this topic. Since I posted the news article six days ago I nicked my dick for the very first time during my most recent shaving session. It was only a pinprick, the bleeding stopped right away and the next day I couldn't see where the nick had been. But it reminded me that I only have one of them and I'd better take care of it each and every time I clean it up.