Funny the images which get us going when our balls are starting to be productive. I remember one hot summer day while I was riding in a car seeing a buff late teen guy exerting his muscles while mowing the lawn. Later his image would come to me as I was practicing squeezing out my early loads. I think I was identifying with the guy's strong masculinity as I was increasingly enjoying my own.
Thanks for jogging my memory back to that moment.View Thread
You know, it's true that the latex in most condoms is adversely affected by heat -- a good reason not to keep a condom in you wallet as guys used to do over the years. But I don't think that normal room temperatures are a problem.
Keeping condoms in the fridge might even give too much of a chill to a hard dick when you are rolling one on for it to stay hard. But I don't know -- you might want to experiment and see how it goes. Let us know how it works for you after you try.View Thread
The class was mixed although it was mainly guys. The great thing is that all of them -- including me -- just accepted my erection as part of what was going on, as part of life. And yes, I have seen two other guys pop a boner during the sessions and figured it was only a matter of time before I did, too.
And yes, the moment was exhilarating. But I was interested in that what was more exhilarating was holding the feeling within me all day. That beautiful flower of a hard penis (an image we usually don't have) energized me all day.View Thread
So today's my third day of an early morning nude yoga group. Getting comfortable with the routine and movements and in being part of a group where nudity is incidental to the activity.
Was doing some leg and hip-raising movements today when I realized that as I had expected I might do sometime in this class I had grown quite a nice erection. I felt oddly relaxed and enjoyed feeling its strong fullness, its bobbing around as I moved. And I resisted both natural reactions -- one, to take it into my hands or consciousness to enjoy more fully, or two, to ignore it and either let it pass or hope it would go away. Today instead I just enjoyed having an easily visible hard penis being who I was at the moment, neither encouraging or discouraging, just enjoying. And I began to think not only of how we usually take one of those two paths, the hide or enjoy, but also of how we treat our penis in general. Either we keep it cooped up and put away, or we whip it out and make a big deal of it. How little time we spend enjoying it just for what it is!
How newly pleasant it was just to enjoy my erection as part of who I was at that moment, how it met the early morning with all the beauty of a wonderful flower! All day I have carried that strong but peaceful image within me. It has given me both peace and strength while I have felt greater integration between my penis and my true self. Apparently as the erection faded during the session its energy passed into my whole physical and spiritual being instead of ejaculating out of its end.
I wish for all of you to reach the fullest enjoyment of your penis. And to continue to tell us the various stages of development you may encounter. We continue to have much to talk about as we grow as men.View Thread
Please remember the next time you are cutting up hot chili peppers to WASH YOUR HANDS THOROUGHLY afterwards before taking a pee. I forgot to do that last week-end and wound up with an uncomfortable and stinging cock-head.
I had to return to the bathroom, pull off my clothes, hop in the shower and use the hand-held spray to wash and rinse the end of my penis until the stinging stopped. And wouldn't you know it, before the stinging stopped the lug started to get hard on me, thinking that it was playtime, which it certainly wasn't!
So if you find yourself working with hot peppers, either wash thoroughly afterwards before taking a leak; OR use rubber gloves either to chop the peppers or to take a whizz (your choice).View Thread
1. The bathroom. It's private and it's easy to be nude there. Also easy clean-up.
2. I started masturbating around age 8 or so. But I wasn't old enough then to ejaculate any semen -- I just felt good when I had rubbed enough! Back before I started to discharge semen I could masturbate in bed but after I started "making a mess" it was the bathroom, for sure!View Thread
You might consider going to the gym a little earlier, if possible. A nice beat-off after a work-out is always a nice way to relax and come down after a heavy lifting session. Steam room is a good place to do it if that could work out for you. Maybe someone else there to do it with as well!View Thread