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gymrat44

Joined: 03/21/2011

My Story:

In my 60s, bought my first barbell in high school 50 years ago and still work out four or five times a week. Getting to know and enjoy my body has included shining the flashilight into all corners of my sexualtiy and learning to enjoy that as well. A really good workout can be as good as sex; and great sex can be quite a workout!

I believe we are all potentially bisexual and over time develop ourselves at a particular point on the same-sex to opposite-sex continuum. Once we accept where we are and have come to terms with that we can be at peace and come to terms with others wherever they may be. I consider myself "straight" but realize that that's only part of who I am.

Have been married to two wonderful yet very different women and have learned much from them.

For one-on-one conversation my e-mail is: thegymrat44@aol.com

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What you describe doesn't sound familiar and the fact that you're having annual physicals...

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Reply: Looking at speedos

Hey, I'm sorry I haven't responded as I have been rather busy when I have e-mail access....

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7 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Looking at speedos Hey, I'm sorry I haven't responded as I have been rather busy when I have e-mail access....

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lv2jo's post which mentioned driving and masturbating reminded me of having once lived way...

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36 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Public Masturbation lv2jo's post which mentioned driving and masturbating reminded me of having once lived way...

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Shaving in the buff is fine -- I do it all the time. But having your cock flop on the sink...

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41 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Nude time Shaving in the buff is fine -- I do it all the time. But having your cock flop on the sink...

Reply: Fondling ourselves in public

Well, I suppose that the baseball players do enjoy knowing that thousands of people are...

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Reply: No Sexual issues ???

Ah, conference calls, how to spend time making money without working! Sometimes after one...

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Reply: No Sexual issues ???

Hey, jrocker, you're right -- it has been unusually quiet around here lately. Like you I...

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Hey, jrocker, you're right -- it has been unusually quiet around here lately. Like you I like to take a break while something is running and check out what randy thoughts might be under discussion here, sort of like going into a familiar bar to get a little refreshment.

But lately it's been like going into a bar where nobody's there, and that's kind of dull. So, come on guys, let's see what we can come up with and post something. And no, I don't know of any other sites where the guys might have gone.

I'll start the ball rolling by bringing up the subject of absent-minded masturbation. The other day I was sitting in a stall thinking over a problem, looked down and saw my hand was pumping a semi-hard cock. Well, I thought, this is nice -- but do I just stop and go back to work or see this through and have some unplanned relaxation. It can go either way and has sometimes. This time I decided to complete the process to ejaculation -- and hey, I can feel myself stiffening up as I remember the incident and tell you about it. And reading this maybe you're joining me, too, in discovering that your undershorts suddenly don't seem to have enough room in them any more. (Your decision what to do).

Something else I was wondering when all this happened the other day -- when does rubbing or pulling one's penis stop being just rubbing and pulling and becomes masturbation? Do you have to ejaculate in order for a session to be called masturbation? In which case you could never say "I am masturbating" but could only say "I masturbated" (or, "I will masturbate"). If it has to be completed to be 'official' then you couldn't use the present tense. This line of thinking is rather stupid but I did and do find it somewhat entertaining. Just what is masturbation, anyway? Like we don't know . . .

And relating to the original subject of absent-minded masturbation: I can remember some years back while watching TV with my wife she looked at me, laughed and asked me if I was having a good time? I suddenly realized that under my bathrobe I'd been pulling on my penis -- it wasn't hard and my mind had been on the show but sometimes that happens, just like wiggling your leg or something like that -- and I felt something like I had been 'caught' at something. I pulled my hand out and looked surprised. She then told me that I should keep on if I liked and it felt good, just that she thought it was funny. Since I had not been consciously beating off in the first place it was kind of hard to go back to what I was doing but I did find it cool that she was fully comfortable with my doing it. In fact there wasn't anything I might do by myself which I couldn't do with her around as well. I really appreciated that!

OK, it's your turn -- you've read this, now you tell us something interesting.View Thread

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And did you notice that we were having a good conversation last week about being aroused...

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4 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Removed Thread And did you notice that we were having a good conversation last week about being aroused...

Reply: Fondling ourselves in public

And then there's the whole bit about baseball players grabbing their crotch -- adjusting...

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9 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Fondling ourselves in public And then there's the whole bit about baseball players grabbing their crotch -- adjusting...

Reply: Fondling ourselves in public

Hi, SeattleRon, and welcome to our community. Your idea of mirroring someone else's...

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9 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Fondling ourselves in public Hi, SeattleRon, and welcome to our community. Your idea of mirroring someone else's...

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