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There's something powerful and enjoyable about considering that we are able to share arousal, pass it along and celebrate our common and shared masculinity together. That's one of the great spirits of these boards and I do appreciate sharing with you all.View Thread


Your idea of mirroring someone else's behavior is interesting and it can be something that a lot of us do sometimes without realizing it. Even if we're carefully constructing our speech we may not be fully mindful of all of our body actions.
I do know that sometimes when I have been having a conversation with someone who has a partcular accent (either regional or foreign) I may start talking with some elements of that accent myself without realizing it. Since language is really a form of behavior it's easy to see how hand movement could also unconsciously mimic another person's.
Apparently you've encountered this thing of another guy rubbing his abs and pecs both with and without clothes, probably in a gym-like situation. And if you're both nude, the other guy is rubbing his pec and his nip gets hard it's only reasonable that your dick would begin to thicken. For even if your conversation isn't sexual that type of body rubbing can well be. But what's the issue with labelling -- you're relaxing and when relaxing our sexual sides are more liable to come out.
While relaxing in the steam room after a hard workout I've been known to massage various muscle groups to help them relax. And sometimes I'll also pull on my dick a time or two. And the guy across from me may do the same. And we both may wind up having a pleasant bit of relaxation and release -- no contact, but no need to hide. We're really very much the same and sometimes that type of relaxation just comes along as a welcome part of the day. Acknowledging that through shared experience can be nice.
All I'm suggesting, SeattleRon, is that you relax and enjoy your sexuality -- don't be afraid of it if it comes along unexpectedly. Get to know it better. On the other hand, don't let yourself feel directed or pressured by someone else's actions.View Thread


Has the Man to Man Topics board been discontinued? It was one of the three which I visited regularly for quite some time.View Thread

Maybe it would be easier if you aimed your dick into the shower? That could be easier to clean up afterwards. Or, depending where you live, just go outside?View Thread

I know you would like to have had more to tell us but you both moved ahead further than you have been before. You were nervous, he was hammered -- perhaps it's a better thing that you didn't do any more than you did. You both know that you are interested in each other and I don't think that either of you did anything you'd be sorry for later.
Your hard dicks could wind up pressing against each other sometime again soon; then it would be easier to see what would come along next. Good luck to you!View Thread

Or is the situation more complicated than that? The above would work for me.View Thread

And if you are not alone -- and get creative, how would you like to be masturbated? How would a good session go for you and another?View Thread

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